Four of the myth of women's magazines about sex

How often do you read again the advice of glossy magazines about what should be in a sexual relationship, you find yourself thinking that your sex life is not so diverse and enchanting. However, many clichés quite far from real life and contribute not so much to raise awareness about sex as imposing the people of new complexes and full of confidence that they have a sexual life failed.


According to statistics, the representatives of more than 70% of couples after reading articles like this are trying to play to practice what so beautifully painted in a glossy magazine. And only half of them come to read critically. The most popular clichés are:





Sexy lingerie as a mandatory attribute of seduction men


Is really required to appear before the only man in sexy lingerie. Council woman look for the elect seductive and desirable gives rise to the thought that it was pretty unattractive without seductive underwear. However, the Council to meet her husband from work without clothes and subtle lace lingerie is appropriate. It was too willfully after several years of marriage, and the husband can become confused. This action is more like a screenplay, and not on the stage of life. This particularly applies to the Board to use latex lingerie from sex shops. This lingerie looks great on pictures, but in real life it is quite difficult to pull out and even harder to remove, especially if you sweat.





The more - the better


A few far-fetched problem of the size of machismo care more representatives of a strong half of mankind, than women. Actually, the average size of penis is enough to give pleasure to the partner. The fact is, that most of the nerve endings that provide sensitivity to sexual intercourse is at the entrance of the vagina. Therefore, it would wish this pleasure to deliver, and it can be done and at a very average size of male dignity.





Point G


Reading glossy magazines, so it seems that if you're with a partner did not find this infamous G-spot, and the orgasm you had not so intense. Its existence is still disputed, although from the point of view of anatomy, the upper wall of the vagina is really a cluster of nerve fibers. But is it really noticeable stimulation of this point, as it is presented to us women's magazines? Most likely, it depends on the physiology of women and the threshold of her in this zone. It is believed that the G-spot acquires sensitivity only in those cases when a woman is excited. But one of her stimulation delivers a lot of pleasant sensations, while others do not notice something extraordinary.





Simultaneous orgasm - aerobatics


A couple of decades ago it became fashionable to talk about simultaneous orgasm as a sign of harmonious sexual relations and the manifestation of aerobatics in the technique of sex. It's been a long time, and this theme continues to agitate the minds of partners who seek, whatever it was, to achieve simultaneous orgasm. But here's the thing: the more they think about it, the more you lose something important, namely the spontaneity of the process and the pleasure from it. Of course, simultaneous orgasm in the sexual life of the partners is desirable, but not mandatory phenomenon. And often it reach those who do not fixate on receiving it, and just enjoy the process.




In the field of human relations as sex cannot 100% be programmed using only the tips of the glossy magazines. Each pair is so individual that can itself make a list of tips on how best to achieve pleasure in sex, to look more attractive to your partner and to win his heart. That sex brought a real pleasure, you just need to want to deliver it to the partner, and the response was not long in coming.

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