To buy some great sex more often allow themselves not only men but also women. We are not trying to throw this phenomenon for some sort of trendy trend. Sex always bought, bought and will buy. Anyway, while women are money, and the young men will be beautiful, vain and accommodating.
Surprisingly only one. It seems, from the situation of the purchase of sex has finally evaporated and the shade of the blemish or sin. Believe the author's word - and when in the fitness clubs ladies seeking beautiful young instructors, and when women call themselves helpfully boys escort or simply without any equivocation take the boy on call sex there is, and there is no Vice. All remain, as a rule, icy calm. Men certainly. Defect involves at least some, but perverteth, reject or drop of passion. But when a woman is ready to pay for sex with young and beautiful, and he in turn prepared ourselves to give it just a business relationship. There are three possible forms - business, hunting or ordinary prostitution, for the name which sometimes find beautiful metaphors that do not change the fact.
Business. Escort services
"Men, providing escort services, live, to put it mildly, eventful life," says Sergei, only yesterday returned from the yacht club in Zavidovo and going after our conversation to a private party at a restaurant in Central Moscow. "What I did in Zavidovo? Greeted guests graced the event.
And the truth is, he is the most genuine decoration and there. Beautiful, with a perfect body, expensive, but available. Its availability is payable not bad - about five hundred
$ the night is a quality escort. But we are talking here exclusively about support and all the nice stupidity alone.
A woman can order a escort accompaniment to any event: party in the club, presentations, negotiations. Very often the guys from escort call when you want to spend your vacation at the resort in good company.
"Sex always negotiated separately, - says Sergey. But you can immediately upset: usually the escort does not imply sex. So the talk of violent sexual life of our guys in the bed of the ladies is very much exaggerated. But they absolutely groundless, also can not tell".
The average client of an escort Agency strongly over 30, or rather, over 40, but she looks fine. Typically, this is a CEO of his own company or the wife of a high official. But most of all a woman who has no time for novels. She is always busy serious business and wants from time to time a nice rest. Although there are always exceptions. It happens that ordinary office workers are ordering girlfriend birthday guy from escort.
According to Yuri, the PR Director of one of the largest escort agencies, any awkwardness women paying for their services, do not experience.
"On the contrary, they come for the escort, as for bread in the supermarket, " laughs George. - She feels the need to buy now and buy it. This is a very affluent and confident lady. Understand, no one dares to deny that these women are accustomed to conquer, and not to obey. Not surprisingly, otherwise they would have been able to achieve what they have achieved. So they where rather a sense of superiority, rather than awkwardness. And this, I confess, I myself a couple of times naturally shy".
Why women seek an escort Agency? This happens for many reasons. Besides the obvious desire to have a good time in his catastrophic shortage, there are also more original. Common cause - to annoy the girlfriend or cause jealousy men. Indeed, some modern (and secure) the woman wants to come one evening meetings classmates or corporate your own company? But we must understand that all truly believed in the existence of a Prince, his face should be familiar to the audience. Often women have long enjoyed the services of the same escorter. First, to secure the result, and secondly, in order not to risk it. Because ideal you escorter as hard to find as a good boyfriend.
"Very often, business women take an escort on vacation, " says Luke, tall brunette with green eyes and the body of a candidate master of sports in powerlifting. Such pleasant in every sense of the way to relax. No need to start a holiday romance. Everything is already in you, as if you fly with the samovar".
But for the presence of the negotiations, and business men of the escort employ less often, although these services as a priority are served on the websites of almost all known agencies in the capital.
Escorters there is only one rule - no rules no. Each order is individual, and directly before working woman must clearly articulate their desires. And discuss their value. Then the man so clearly performs them. If the client for any reason violates a same border, the man gently takes the situation in the party. Makes it clear that this gesture and this is too strong embrace - is superfluous.
"No contract between a man and a client, of course not, - says Sergey. - Everything depends only on oral agreements. So very often see a picture: a woman at first simply asks to accompany her to a party at the club, and then, after drinking a couple of cocktails, climbs to kiss. On the evening of may develop in two ways. If the man the lady is cute, he will allow her some tricks, but if not, will hint at the tactless".
As they say workers escort, financial incentives in such a situation, do not play a big role. Still, the man is not always able to have sex without the slightest sympathy and excitement, which money can't buy. So often the evening continued," is by mutual desire. "This explains the fact that sex in the field of escort services is not such a common occurrence, despite quite appealing to this atmosphere," according to Agency employees.
Young men of the escort, as a rule, having Affairs with age, and which contain a man on the honestly earned money. The clients are treated with sympathy, but without illusions. Rather, as with condescension.
"Novels - a very rare occurrence, but, you know, we're all human, " says Luke. Of course, there are sympathies, of course, love is born. Rarely, but it happens. Although the girl who intends to use the services of an escort, I would have advised him to remain within the framework of agreements, and love the look in the real world and with real man".
The hunt. Fitness trainers
In fitness clubs go girls from 16 to 60 years. Those who in this age strap is approximately in the middle, not exclusively for press fit and worked trapezius muscle - some necessary and men within walking distance. According to professional instructors, from women who are over thirty and up to fifty, to fight back, it is sometimes quite difficult. Not all and try, however.
"Yes, it happens quite often, with a smile, says Misha. Quite a young fellow, student athletic Institute, worked as an instructor in water exercise in one of the largest fitness clubs. - When a woman goes in for sports with a man, she becomes more open and all complexes disappear. It all starts with simple communication. Sometimes on the initiative of the coach, sometimes the client. Fifty-fifty. This boundary between work and personal relationships can go on their own, but only within the limits of the club. If no such intention, you can simply do their job and politely give the customer to understand that you're not going to flirt".
For such as Misha, such flirting is just a game. A tribute to the young and growing organism. For more experienced trainers personal relationship with clients is not only an opportunity to move up the social ladder, but fear not remain without work.
Girls looking to strong male attention in the clubs themselves coaches are divided into three types.
First suffer from inferiority complex. Afraid of meeting new people (especially with young beautiful people), not a better opinion about their appearance and, as a rule, not without reason. By enrolling in fitness, they are not afraid to come to the instructor, because he is the one who will help solve their problems. Not only to get rid of
excess weightbut first and foremost to believe in themselves. Then over time some of the women begins to look at his coach special look.
Another category of girls who are completely confident in themselves and their appearance. In the clubs, especially the premium, they are looking for wealthy men with whom you can establish a beneficial acquaintance. And to pass the pending writes to personal trainers who are happy to share with beautiful girls.
"And why is that? surprised respond to my inquiries Alexander, fitness instructor with nine years experience. - Coach is a person, just a young and athletic. This is one of the most popular misconceptions about what is around us constantly go some Pamela Anderson. The main visitor club a woman over forty with a pronounced
cellulite. So to get yourself in the client's a beautiful girl is always a pleasure".
By the way, go to health clubs to find the best passion, not only the client, but also the coaches. Many of them dream to meet my daughter oligarch. But even if they do not find a suitable wife, often coaches significantly improve its position at the expense of customers. First classified as friends, and then settling down with them to work or even accepting an invitation to become a partner in the sports business.
The third type - women with income above the average. An accomplished business woman, who is not so much time for personal life. And here is a novel with a private instructor is quite. However, this novel could not be called - just the concept of personal training takes on deeper meaning, and the coach it takes not only money, but
gifts.
Needless to say that the instructor in the workplace is prohibited to have any personal relationship. Even the trainers who are accustomed to the increased attention to themselves, know how to effectively communicate with clients without going few boundaries.
All subtleties of communication with clients, coaches are taught in special communicative trainings adapted to the peculiarity of the profession of a fitness trainer. They take into account everything from the tone and content asked the client questions to gestures. On the one hand, the trainer should be able to locate the client, to do everything that came to him again and again, because this depends on his salary. This means, more interested in the life of the client, thus bypassing the theme of marriage and financial situation. Relationship coach - client often become close and even friendly. Even if the coach leaves or the customer ceases to do, they may not terminate the communication. As a contact while personal training is disproportionately smaller than in any other similar plan, for example, student and teacher. And it's not just a large number of touch. Though in them too.
"It is not surprising that on this ground between the coach and the girl often establish friendly relations, " says Misha. Not necessarily with sexual overtones."
The distinction between these two conditions - warm friendship and sexual attraction is quite conditional. On the one hand, the coach is not allowed to take the client's money, not held through cash, carry out free lessons to take
gifts. On the other - these rules are often neglected.
"Bans - bans, and to accept in gratitude for a particular gift, as a rule, he doesn't interfere, - Alexander laughs. And not only the gift. Clients and coaches, even if they are connected by only a sport, are often in constant financial relations, in addition to formalized. This is the sale of sports nutrition, equipment, and much more. As for the topic of our conversation, the coach, feeling a lot of attention, can casually complain of hard life, to ask for a loan, sometimes very substantial sum, which, of course, no one will require...
I would not rush to condemn, not waiting for my question, continues Alexander. - For me, it's a private matter! The same can not escape. And girls, and coaches always get their portion of attention. And how to dispose of them, everyone decides for himself. Let's say that we accept gifts invitations, attention - almost everything. But giving something in return, not everyone. Personally, I can and in vain, prefer to keep with the clients of the distance. Do not let them close, but not reject the move".
The most interesting thing is that with such a high degree of trust is hard to understand at what point a cute trinket as a gift has come to mean a real affection, and not a friendly gesture. But if the coach starts to reciprocate, it is necessary to be alert. And clearly understood what he was doing. Because there is nothing worse than a rejected women
"One instructor so took advantage of his position, was allowed to give yourself expensive gifts, inviting restaurants, went to rest at the expense of the client, - says Olga, the administrator of the fitness club. And then suddenly decided with a girl a break. She complained of a bad instructor, wrote in the official complaint that her molested, and it immediately fired. He tried to defend their rights, but, first of all, the girl had a good relationship, and secondly, the customer is always right. And in 99 % of cases, conflicts are settled in their favor.
The most effective strategy if the instructor doubts or understands that he doesn't need it, don't try to start a relationship. Because if all would not end the way we wanted, even if without formal complaints, reputation as a coach it can wreck thoroughly".
No matter how excited visitors of fitness clubs increased attention from coaches, they usually just sex is not interesting. As any woman, they are looking for relationships. Let the lungs, not binding, but relations. The only difference is when they get acquainted with the guys in a normal environment, we look forward to when they will start to care. And in the club knowing that you are paying for training, suggests that you can get something more, but more expensive. So they take the initiative. And quite persistently.
It's not uncommon for light and non-committal relationships develop in a real sense, and even family life. Children and fitness for two.
"Rather, it is probably not a woman who buys a personal trainer, and with a regular client from the total group, " says Alexander. Coaches mainly because people young and if you are looking for sincere mutual relations with a girl his age. Personal as trainings in statistics use the older women... Not little girls, so to speak".
As practice shows, we must not be afraid only of clients, greedy inflated tel coaches. In the end, the instructor always has the opportunity to complain to management as too Intrusive behavior. If such complaints will become more frequent, the club may, in writing, to remind her that this behavior does not comply with the rules. As extreme measures even to refuse membership and to close the club card. But what's really dangerous to get to the object of interest of one of the senior managers.
"I even had to leave a very good place, reluctantly recalls Alexander. - Let's just say, I do not have a relationship with the Manager. Woman. Everyone said it from me something like... I don't know, I only saw that we are not digestible each other. And because it is unlike clients was the real power over me, she made my life miserable. But in another way I have the situation resolved not wanted".
Just sex. Boys on call
These call boys, those who are summoned to while away the evening or leave, but only with nonsense and without any ostentation in public - of course, most obscure history. Everyone knows that they are. And no one Agency does not confirm to you that straightforward sends his guys to have sex. With great pleasure I can tell you about that in our capital, oddly enough, women are simple in their tastes almost never ask any black men or Asian - all want a typical, more beautifully, but simpler. Sometimes it happens that women call escort specialist to make it romantic ride it on the Third ring at a speed of 150 km per hour under some crazy disco days of her youth. To prepared dinner and ran for flowers. But to say what the client and the professional after all these moving pieces, not to say, stubbornly standing their ground: escort without sex.
But someone passes their phones numerous clients? They say that in Moscow there is a pool of single, independent, very wealthy girls 45, who excitedly to each other share professional lovers.
However, to find for interviews and such a man, so to speak, the individual, was easy. Sergey is not the official Agency and does not look like a champion in powerlifting, rather soloist gay group. "These are people from the escorts don't take money and not have sex? Well be surprised, ' he rejoices. - All take, we all are, despite how much will offer. The client will not like it and the boy can not do anything? Nonsense. Our girls though not girls already, but all look fine, well-groomed, smart, educated, often intelligent and with a sense of humor. And most importantly - rich, and all the rich long ago seem beautiful to me. All in all it turns out - no doubt. They are beautiful, but I would advise girls to change partners - nothing to get used. However, to teach them is not necessary, they are all without illusions for twenty years as, otherwise, would not have achieved what we have. Boys, as a rule, anyone not fall in love and sometimes even live with other boys. Or age. It is solely a business relationship, sometimes turning into a friendly. There are bad stories when guys take on the full content here already and dependence, and control, and mutual hysteria. It can break, I saw these stories. You have to play this mini-husband to call her at work, to report and to stoop. Ends in scandal and tear, and the guy already forgot how to work honestly.
None of us is going to do this all the time - all learning, often in good universities, or work. Need money - on the rag, eat good apartments, clubs or as an attachment in the future. Sometimes it is possible to establish a very profitable business acquaintances will help your career. Looking at many of us will never guess what this boy can do in your free time. What do you feel? Feel nothing, it's just a job. Humiliated? Don't understand why this should humiliate? Nobody forces anyone, everyone is happy. You often seen in other professions? I honestly tell you - no emotion, pure business. You know, if the coach starts from the client to take the money for sex with his conscience gnaws. And I don't tell people that I coach, I say sleep with women for money, we all without cheating".
Indeed, the closer or even lower to the point - the less emotions and closer assessment of the situation. Such paradoxical mental health remains enviable. However, no matter how much they paid women and no matter how you feel Housewives position, but there are also male, deep, and even sexist opinion on this topic. It looks as follows: even if a woman pays a man still in sex asserting itself. So to speak - cannot change its nature. Feels top. Though for other people's money, that is the paradox.
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