The main causes of divorces

Start all marriages equally with love and hope for a common future. But families break up for different reasons. Let's find out what are the main causes of family disintegration of the Union.


Women and men their views on the root cause of divorce. Women in the main, the main reasons for divorce is called:




- neglect after the child's birth;




- too much time he spends with friends and not at home with my wife;




- men's treason;




his inattention and indifference;




also as reasons for divorce from the woman's hand appears the lack of a good, regular sex;




sooner or later alcoholism, drug addiction and other disadvantages spouse become a cause of divorce;




psychological incompatibility of women and men.




Men as the main causes of divorce is called... banal boredom. From boredom to divorce, as they say, one step. Boredom from daily repetitive rituals of family life, from sex not as a reward, and the status of the requirement, from a frightening certainty of the future men climb on the wall almost as well as women during childbirth.




It is well-established, frosted family relationships are pushing a man to commit adultery, in search of new adventures and a fresh drink of emotional feelings.




The man can bring to a divorce as a complete predictability of the behavior of the wife and absolute predictability joint lifestyle, and the fact that the missus in bed continues to discuss friends and superiors, and not have sex with it here and now.




If any of the spouses in marriage all tired, tired of his routine, all: write - lost.




Quarrels and violent conflicts, if they are too frequent and are destructive in nature, are one of the leading causes of divorce, because the show is not about the violence of the characters of women and men, and about their psychological, sexual or domestic incompatibility.




Paradoxically, but often the cause of divorce become... talk about divorce. Remember, when was the last time you spoke to her husband: "All! On-to-eat! I demand a divorce and my maiden name! "




A threat like the comic and eggs are eaten not is, but the constant talking and sharing with her husband discussions and arguments on the subject of divorce, sooner or later transformed from the virtual field in the realm of reality, for there is nothing more tangible than our thoughts and intentions expressed verbally, even in jest. In every joke joke only share.




Another common cause of divorce, which is not to say aloud and in a reputable company, is the expectation of one of the spouses of gratitude from the other spouse for his good deeds for the gifts, the opportunity to live in his apartment, for financial provision for children, travel... yeah whatever.




At that second, the donee spouse begins to feel obligated for all these gifts of fortune, with all that considers himself a victim and under full guardianship is generally bored, and as mentioned earlier, its free, freedom-loving nature pulls fresh air of change and new experiences.

Source:

Women's portal Forlove

women's web magazine