Is there a lot of sex? "No," answer divorced ladies, wives of workaholics and girlfriends metrosexuals, confident that the New year better night of love, because it happens more often. However, a man obsessed with a constant desire for sex is not as fun and beautiful as they may seem.
In order of ascitis!
Sexclub - a real man, unable for a long time to go without sex because of the characteristics of the organism. Typically, lean macho with abundant vegetation on the body. Choleric temperament, excess hormones, good nutrition, moderate exercise and ready man who wants the next three, five or even eight times a day. Can be assertive male, and a passionate lover. From a lack of sex suffering, including physical (headaches, obsessive erection and so on). His type of woman: feminine, temperamental, with magnificent forms. Example: Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin.
Sexoholic - have sex then, what other smoke, overeat, play in the casino and gaming industry. In my childhood I felt the need to suck her thumb, nail biting or thumb blanket. As an adult, learned a new lesson. Unable to cope with desires like an alcoholic with a thrust to the bottle. Sex as such is indifferent, the result is important, not the process. Long no sex causes irritability, depression, possible compulsive Masturbation, sex binges, the transition to other types of dependencies. Type of women: any consonant. Example: Tiger Woods.
Sexual terrorist - hidden or obvious hater. Sex to Express negative feelings, to let off, to forget about problems, to prove that all women are equally immoral. In sex aggressive, prone to sadism, humiliates and insults her. Very jealous. Without sex is capable of inappropriate actions, including rape. Type of women: famous, successful, and if we do not have any. Example: Lavrenti Beria.
Sex-racer - adrenaline junkie. Important is not so much sex as the excitement of the chase, the risk of getting in the face of a deceived husband, to be caught by the wife or the police, get rid of the purse, to catch AIDS and other major troubles. Beautiful lover, though strange, is inclined to experiment. Without sex can do, if doing something more exciting and fascinating. Type of women: exotic, dangerous, creative personality. Example: John gray, the character of the film "9½ weeks".
Sex philatelist - chose sex as a way of self-realization. Others make a career or discharges in sports, collecting stamps or coins, and this collects women. May have problems with the size and shape of the member to compensate for this higher level of loving craftsmanship. Constantly hints at their hidden talents, inclined to flirt and erotic conversations. Able for some time to go without sex, to settle down in marriage. Type of women: bright beauties. Example: the Vicomte de Valmont ("Dangerous liaisons").
Sex foodie - the person with special needs in sex. The quality and quantity of sex is trying to fill the void from unfulfilled desire. Will change women until, until you find the one who will be able special needs to meet. As a lover is diverse habits, although marriage can look ordinary, moderate desires husband, prone to obsessive Masturbation. Without sex is bypassed for a long time, sublimates in work or sports. Type of women: unexpected option (if the woman is much older, if she is of a different social circle, and so on). Example: Salvador Dali.
Exopat not confident infantil. Typically suffers from the small size of the member, hormonal problems, erectile dysfunction. Needs not so much the sex that much attention to his precious person, adoration and praise. Narcissistic egoist. Can be an outstanding lover, but not often treats women. Start from the excitement and novelty. Charming woman, falls in love, then uses her emotional turmoil. Loves love triangles, quadrilaterals and other structures, with the condition that he is in the center. Able to do without sex at all, if a woman's emotions around enough. Type of women: romantic and shy, often with the psychology of the victim. Example: Andrey Busygin ("Autumn marathon").
This is important: if an adult this has greatly increased the desire and need for sex, especially with the loss of self-control and the appearance of strange fantasies, be sure to contact your doctor. So can appear organic brain damage and endocrine glands, mental illness, side effects of some medications.
Saccomani to live or not to live?
In the United States and Europe, sex addiction has long been recognized as a disease, pathological addiction, like gambling or drinking. There are doctors and special clinics, which were treated tiger woods, Michael Douglas, David Duchovny and Kevin costner. There is even a society of anonymous sexaholics, in which sufferers are sensitive dependence share with each other their problems together and return to normal life.
What is different from saccoman from temperamental men who likes sex? What lover to enjoy a good cocktail in the bar from an alcoholic. The temperamental men in life there are lots of other interests, he is able to reasonably estimate the risk of sex with, say, Secretary Director, sister wives, download new action instead of new porno, to refrain from connection with the woman on moral or ethical grounds. Saccoman not able to restrain themselves and at any moment ready to succumb to the temptation. Sex for him is more important than family and friendships, career, and personal safety. No promises, oaths of allegiance and vows of chastity will not stop him.
How to identify sexomania is a difficult question. First, it is indistinguishable from a passionate and gallant suitor, can pretend to be chaste and to become friends. Pay attention to how well he speaks compliments, attentions, charms, breaking records in the bed. The better he does, the richer his experience short meetings. Look at how he treats other women - from waitresses to work colleagues. Saccoman often talks about sex, seeking proximity to the first meeting, cools not getting desired immediately or with persistence of the Rhino years suggests that he was an old soldier and not know the words of love.
Sleeping with a woman a couple of times, often disappears and no longer answer calls - the sex he got further interested. In his apartment, most likely, there will be a stack of porno magazines, computer - terabytes of porn videos and photos. Entering into a long-term relationship or marriage, zealously defend the right to privacy or, on the contrary, with hysterical enthusiasm swears eternal fidelity. And, finally, in his life there are other women - a lot or very much.
For short and optional novels of saccoman the ideal candidate if you remember super-durable condoms. To live with him for a long time is very difficult. But if a woman is able to accept the fact that she loved no one, and the opponent will have always. Theoretically of sexomania you can make the right husband in adulthood and love, as it happened with Dali or lover Catherine count Orlov. Almost have to stand female names in social networks, voice phone and lipstick on the jacket. Learning how to deal with jealousy and resentment, you can achieve a lot - saccoman, free from the necessity to hide the problem, capable of deep feelings and sincere gratitude. Sensitive and loving girlfriend will achieve reciprocity and may even be unique, because most women will be violently jealous of him and want to get sole use.
To weaken the sex addiction, it is necessary to ensure the partner is diverse and strong impressions, exercise, jump with him with a parachute, to travel to exotic routes, Alpine skiing, rafting down rivers, playing in a variety of sexual games.
There is another way to get treatment for sex addiction, consultation with a psychiatrist, endocrinologist and sex therapist, support group, and the firm intention to change your life... But few men are willing to go for it.
And few women are willing to tolerate endless edit.
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