Three types of jealousy. Be on your guard!

In relations between a man and a woman often there are many difficulties and problems associated with the feeling of jealousy...
And, as everyone knows, it is not always clear: some would say that is jealous, it means love. However, it is not so simple.





There are three types of jealousy





Normal jealousy (Based on low self-esteem)



The first type occurs when people selfishly requires the full, all-consuming attention (step forward, step backward - shooting. Such a jealous person rarely thinks about the desires of his partner, forgets that he is not his property. Does not want to divide his companion or his friends or relatives, or even with a past life...





But one has only to think: "What if we pomenyaemsya places? What I will be in this invisible cage, invisible collar and invisible handcuffs"?





The jealous usually suffer from low self-esteem. One begins to compare himself with literally everybody who deals with the subject of jealousy. In my head worrying about his own worthlessness. What makes you think about how at the first opportunity loved one will parametersa to the one who deserves it more.





In such moments forgotten the concept of "happy together". Constant quarrels and reproaches by jealousy only undermine a strong relationship. Because the question is not about how happy whether your loved one is with you, and are you happy.




Manipulative





The next type of jealousy is manipulative. When jealousy unfold such psychological operations, as manipulation. One person makes you feel another guilt that he was not with him. And, naturally, the guilty will try to redeem himself. That proves the power of the husband over his partner.





Only a person always be given the choice to be jealous or allow yourself to be jealous.






Pathological



Even harder when jealousy turns into pathology. Pathological jealousy is characterized by a mental disorder, it is, in most cases, has no basis in reality. The feeling becomes an obsession, and the person completely loses control of himself. Constant scandals break last "threads linking relations".





It is very difficult to stop, think about all your actions, all your unfounded accusations towards native and the most loved one! Rarely marriages in which there is no trust, last long...





Consider the fact that one life and live it with people you trust, whom I sincerely love. Also we must not forget that only a truly loving person can give freedom as soon as his senses begin to strangle the object of adoration"...

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