Going on a date with a man and a little nervous? Fear not what to say and not to do so? Psychologists believe such fears are well founded. Practice shows that many women have very little knowledge on how to behave on a first date, especially if it's a date involves going to a restaurant. We will tell you about some of the nuances that will help you to create a favorable atmosphere for a romantic meeting. Let's consider all the points...
How to look. The biggest mistake is to dress as if we go to a beach party. Therefore, going on a date in a restaurant, put aside all mini dress with a deep neckline. As polls show, men "the people" want to see next to a beautiful woman, but a modest and well-groomed. This means that the focus in preparing pay just care, that is, the nails, the makeup, the hair must be perfect. And bright, stylish, unlike the other women you make the original accessories.
Where we will go. Typically the meeting with the "object" is in some public place, where a couple, actually, and goes to a restaurant or some other institution. But in what? More often than not the man gives the right of choice to the lady, asking the perennial question: "Where would you like to go? ". Not to make rude, a woman should respond in such a way that, on the one hand, set direction, and on the other, not to impose a man any specific place. Reply something like: "I wish I would drink a Cup of coffee and a bite to eat somewhere, too." After this answer, the man himself will be able to choose what he likes and can afford either inexpensive cafes, or a decent restaurant.
Select table. The next problem will come before you in a cafe or restaurant: who chooses a table and a seat at the table? This question also should exercise tact. First ask a question to the man ("Which table will choose? "and if he will forward the right choice for you, then you are free to choose the table and a place for it on your own. However, choosing the place, in no case do not sit down immediately: let the man to show his gallantry and at least push you in the chair.
What to order. A new dilemma - order dishes and drinks. In this matter, you should exercise extreme caution, as "bad" choices can make your gentleman a bad impression. You need to eat necessarily, and no talk about diet. No need to shock the man, choosing the most expensive dishes, but to stoop to the "three crusts of bread" is not worth it. The number of the ordered dishes should also be moderate. Easy appetizer and one main dish - a reasonable option. Remember that a decent woman eating dessert only after the holder it will offer to do it. Not offered? So, order tea or coffee. As for the selection of drinks, during the first meetings from alcohol it is better to abstain or be limited to light alcoholic beverages.
Bring the account. And now the culmination of the evening - the time has come to pay the bill! In Russia the woman is not worth to pay for half the bill, as is customary in the West, but the money it is better to have: if there is something unexpected, you will always be able to pay and proudly leave the school. If the evening was a success, let the man pay the bill. Important - do not see the invoice amount and the size of the tip, if he leaves, it's his personal business. And at the end of the evening, of course, do not forget to Express man thanks for the nice time spent together and voice their desire to go with him somewhere else - of course, if you really want this.
Source:
Female magazine Arabio
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