The problem of weight gain in women is linked forever with the hope of personal happiness. Why else would you be nervous?
On Dating sites not to specify your height and weight. On my page I would write:
- Hello, I - 65 pounds! To be honest, sometimes I and 59, but if you need my truth, more often than 72 kg. I have a wide range as an Opera singer, from the languid, limp, almost hectic girls with zatravlenny spirituality eyes to the fun and carefree fat girls, follower hedonistic branches in the development of mankind.
To eat I love more than to indulge in an ethereal dreams.
I don't know how you can trust a graph, which can be easily smulevici. You can always Flirty to say: "I put on some weight! "
By the way, I weight Megastar Marilyn Monroe. Thinking about this, I experience an inner triumph international scale. And Marilyn Monroe the same parameters as the Venus de Milo. She answered on the contentious claims to their figure. Simple marketing ploy - and despised all girls with creamy sides, we turn into a rare beauty and proportionality goddesses of beauty! Thanks also to the work of Rembrandt, Velasquez, but most Petrov-Vodkin and Kustodiev for the restoration and development of the ancient images of female beauty on a national basis. True connoisseurs opt for fat girls. "Glory from one thought to contemplate Your forms! " - from a letter to the layman the beginning of the last century. Were men!
As a psychologist and a woman, I have developed a whole Arsenal of protective reactions. The opinion of men about my weight I'm not interested. Their claims will inevitably stumble upon opinion, clearly indicating a beer belly. Being fat man also shameful today, as a thick woman. Just men's easier to lose weight and im not familiar with the cellulite. But they are familiar with impotence. There can be no fat. To feel like a winner, you just need to remember the benefits of their gender. They can't bear to wear high heels, take the top "La"...
"Being fat does not mean not to be able to wash the dishes! "that's what I would say to his companion, if he was watching me English movie about a girl who lost weight to get married. We Bridget Jones not that Hugh Grant would not grabbed, but Vasya some information to the Registrar not brought. These girls we simply don't have the unkempt, devoid of make-up, not able to prepare. I hope "the Diary of Bridget Jones" my companion would prefer "the adventures of Indiana Jones" and will not guess about what role it plays in a love affair a couple of extra pounds.
The idiocy of women's struggle for the high standards of appearance is that most men do not notice the difference between "before" and "after".
Be weighed or to hang himself?
But this does not mean that I always managed to avoid the press standards of thinness. Since childhood I heard: "You need to lose weight, and then the marriage will not take! " Duty is a joke my uncle, a retired warrant officer. Marriage took me. No matter how I was fat, didn't help. But uncle married so no one took: many were not on the case. Women can also consider, if not kilograms, centimeters, and even much more substantial money. For every lost female kilogram they will respond with a ruble!
I also suffered from the fact that the guys who liked me, sank down on my thin girlfriend saiku. And for me, trailed only thick neighbor Only, which, however, my grandmother used to bake great pies with potatoes and dill. So pointless I spent the evening, and the love of food gradually replaced I love men...
Persecuted by society I still periodically weighed. At the main entrance to the exhibition center is my favorite vesovic (from the word "dancer"). She is incredibly thin as the girl with the propaganda poster for weight reduction. Every year it is becoming thinner and thinner. And now she is 45 pounds. Its clients she asks: "do You want to lose weight or gain weight? " In General, it is a compliment. That her work. I, like everyone else, is to lose weight. "I have a dream to get better! Not lose weight, become such as I am, " terrible! " Ecopsychologist right... you can Always to comfort yourself: let me thick, but not so terrible.
And still a little bit strange: why is she bothering? Imagine a blind ophthalmologist, who its customers says: "what is astigmatism and myopia? I just don't see. Will be treated'll go blind..."
To weigh in I weighed, but the weights of the house does not hold. I better money buy celery bag and will chew fiber instead of buns. Therefore free from weighing days, I feel the same regardless of how much of my body weight.
My personal weight loss system - "3". Empirically established long-term practice that I'm losing weight from stress, sex and celery. Celery is the most unobtrusive way.
Very good, by the way, the system of the maniac of Montignac, according to which the products, and their combination. Was his "ikebana" of proteins, fats and carbohydrates, and enjoy life. Individual approach to digestion me personally very flattering. From the heavy burden of the world slimming, diet turns into the deep satisfaction of individual needs. You realize that this world has to bend to you, which extremely increases self-esteem. Instead of depression and social shame - euphoria personal growth and social recognition. Diet can be a trauma, or a variant of psychotherapy.
Countries in different weight categories
It is impossible not to notice that the world community is worried about the excess weight of its citizens. Under the influence of the fashion industry Japan announced a large-scale campaign to reduce the weight of its citizens. The government ordered to measure the waist of his employees aged 40 to 74 years in the framework of the annual medical examination. Those whose waistline exceeds the state limit (85 cm for men and 90 cm for women), will get to the beginning of recommendations on weight reduction and will be put on the account. Knowledge of the weight of the employee non-productive age after forty will now track the company. And keep it in mind when making a decision about the dismissal and sent into retirement.
And under American law to fat people have to pay double the price for the ticket. Before you weigh the baggage, and they find themselves on the scale.
Calling their friends hygienists, I easily found that the problem of excess weight at a national scale is not typical for Russia. We have everything exactly the opposite - 30% of children underweight, and only 7 to 10% excess. The totalitarian state is always encouraged asceticism among its citizens, and asceticism associated with malnutrition. Therefore, not only in Russia, but in China, Eastern Europe, the problems of overweight was not. It often goes on allowable deviation from the norm, which does not threaten health. Much more harm to the psyche causes aggressive advertising standards of thinness. By the way, most of these rules are outdated, need a long time to make a correction on the acceleration and a new way of life. Otherwise we tiskiwin our nogatech and strong teenage girls, slightly overweight because of their age, in the post-war dress their tiny grandmothers.
But really pays for the promotion of thinness center of the fashion industry in France. Today in Parliament the law on the fight against anorexia. According to this law prohibits all forms of media advertising for weight loss.
The reason is the sharp increase in the number of patients with anorexia, poisoning unlicensed drugs, the rise in chronic diseases, provoked underweight.
Anorexia is a women's disease, based on a mental disorder, obsession with one idea - not to recover. Patients feel that any eaten the crumbs into kilograms. Personal life is not their concern. Moreover, they are sick of one type of food. In the presence of patients with anorexia means, subject them to torture. The dangers of the disease that most often it takes irreversible.
Meanness diets in that and is that the rejection of food does not guarantee love. But food, according to statistics, female capita more than men. Think what you need: pie in the sky or a bird in the hand? And the way to a man's heart is through his stomach...
In short, early discard pans!
Author:
Mach O.
Source:
Our psychology
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