The psychology of love, affection, respect, understanding. Call it as You like. We will not go into the details of words and phrases, but just look at what is the psychology of love. Love and friendship manifestations are very similar to each other, except the fact that love in its origin is very complex and there is no doubt.
About love we can talk a lot and forever. Considering the issues of love, as important as thinking about the meaning of life.
Have you ever noticed that the more you expect from life, the less you get from it? The law of life. The same applies to romantic relationships. All because we are drawing a picture, looking for something unreal, but when the time comes to place the events, there's a complete disappointment. Neither we waited! We conclude: the less we have plans, the sweeter pleasure from the surprises of life.
's love. Who were not expecting? All read, watched movies about love, about love fabulous and extremely beautiful. Fantasies, waiting for a light feeling overwhelmed every girl. And then.... Here it is reality. It's not like in a fairy tale, not what was expected. Maybe it's not love? Here, of course, begin vzaimoobvineniya: "You don't love me", "I thought..." What now wonder? Our imaginations went at odds with real life. Who is to blame? Yourself to blame don't want to. Blind faith in love.
Is there love, as a feeling? Believe in it? Well, believe yourself to health, no one is against. But, if a little talk, we love to dream, wishful thinking. And so, with feelings. There was sympathy and suddenly.... Beautiful and unexpected transformation into love. Well, we want, want and believe. Actually anywhere sympathy not go away and in love she is not outgrown. Why? Just not in the psychological sense of such feelings. Going to deal with it.
Often we hear that not everyone can experience a sense of light. Do you believe it? But what about the children, we love them, and we are not taught to do it.
Means all the same to everyone. Corny, but with things happening all the same. Although love thing at all easy. From it, we do not expect reciprocity. Love and all. Care, cherish. If such an attitude to the people close to us! Things we are not offended, because they are favorite. Do You have a favorite dress? What you do with it? Of course, You will be happy to wear it. Because it is a favorite and no claims to the dress does not have. Will be loved, will hang in the closet. Everything is simple!
Psychology of love
Now let's look at how we treat the person we say we love. We want to see it perfect, I want to see him without flaws and shortcomings. Otherwise we are not going to love. Claims claims... it is hard for Us to accept and understand the other person. Easier to take a dress in it because there are no disadvantages, it is also a favorite. And ourselves, we can accept what is? A complex issue and most likely no than Yes. To love ourselves, we also do not know how.
To take another man with his weaknesses, then we will, when you learn to accept your flaws. To learn, not to demand anything in return is what we need. We are not asking from dresses to love us because we love him? So why we are for our good attitude, affection require close human reciprocity? To take another man with his weaknesses, then we will, when you learn to accept your flaws. To learn, not to demand anything.
Loyalty is a wonderful feeling. Should we keep? This issue generally should not stand. We are with man, because he is dear to us. Together, it is correct. Ceases to be near and dear, we're leaving. Everything is simple. It's like your favorite clothes, she ain't we promised that we will carry to the grave. We like - we wear. Man, we can't make love myself forever. It is not our property, and free person. So to say in a love relationship, the word "should" has no meaning. The main thing to understand is that nobody should. Should not love. He just loves. Must not be true. Well with You, then leave. And all the tears about infidelity - it's only our hurt feelings. "As he dared, he swore..."
Of course, skeptics can blame for the comparison of man with a favorite thing. But then they have to prove that there is some nevidannoe feeling that we can experience. But, believe me, it absolutely will not succeed. Therefore, to dwell on thoughts of this kind, we will not. Everyone will stand by my opinion.
We just imagine that You met a man that shall apply to You as well as You to your favorite dress. Him well and he asks for nothing in return. It applies to You without conditions. He never betrays You, not because promised, but because they don't want to do that. You dreamed about it?
Now ask yourself: "I could do such things? " Be just, deficiencies, problems, nothing to demand in return. So that there is no love. It's just a nice word that we speak, getting married, confessing our relationship to the loved one. The sympathy of the different forces, that's all. We the people are nice, we are well with him - that's all there is to it.
And how to be with declarations of love? Man wants to replace one concept to another, it is his right. Isn't it? Not be he same, objasniajace to say, "You're cute" attracted to someone of the opposite sex, there is sympathy and affection - it's great! And You call this sympathy, Your right. And if You just ask: "What is love? " You certainly have no reply.
Any definition, not the definition of the word "love"
And we still nice. It's poetic and romantic. Let the level of poetry and love remains. Remember your perception of the world, while still young children. You loved all around, loved the world as it is. You didn't understand that You love it, because I didn't go into the word itself.
To believe or not to believe in love is the same thing to succumb to self-deception or not. Your right. Simply, the more beautiful words, the less truth in them. Poetry, Yes. Now not to trust anyone? To believe, of course. Just try to look at the world through different eyes. Try to see the beauty around me and to distinguish where true and what is false.
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