We women, being emotional and open, sometimes in relationships with men, we can do a bad service, when on an impulse, we do things instead of to conquer a man, push it. To ensure that your new Beau has not lost interest in you before he will grow into something more, stick to the following tips, no matter how trivial they might seem.
So, what categorically
NOT worth doing:
Make calls and send SMS every hour
Endless calls and sending messages can start to annoy anyone! Just try to keep your impulses on the brakes, and leave him his personal space, instead aggravate your phone calls with questions about where he is and what he is doing. Give him time so that he missed and he found out where you are, who you are and what you do. Don't forget that men are by nature hunters!
Always be at his disposal
If you are always ready to flee to him on the first call, it's worth it just to call, it will create the impression that you don't have your own life or that it is nothing important is happening.
Some women pretend that they have nothing to do except to always have time for a date with a man. It is important to keep the balance: of course, it is good that you find the time to meet with him, but if you have any plans or are you busy, do not be afraid of him to say this. Women, whose lives depend on someone and not filled with any interests and activities, quickly bored.
To utter the word "love" very soon
Yes, there are people who say this sacramental phrase right at the first meeting. Don't tell him that you love him on the first date. You will look at least or stupid or false.
To talk about the wedding
Even if you have in mind have a clear plan when and where will be your wedding, what you will dress and where you go to spend their honeymoon, keep these thoughts to yourself! There is nothing wrong to be honest with him and say that you are looking for a serious relationship, but if you from the very beginning of the relationship to start a conversation about the wedding, he will feel uncomfortable.
Pull out your dirty Laundry
Do not drag your dirty Laundry and their secrets in front of someone you barely know. Some women too quickly begin to mention their former relations, throwing mud at his former men or to inform yourself about very personal things. Let time will pass before you know the person you are going to tell about his past, and let him know you better and will be ready to hear this information objectively and not through the prism of your past secrets that, not knowing you well enough, he may misinterpret that can prematurely put an end to your budding relationship.
To agree to sex on the first date
About sex on the first date, there are opposite opinions. Some people believe that no matter how long you meet before it comes to sex, while others believe that it has value. Of course, is that long-term pair bonds are established and after the first date they went to bed, but this is rare. In General, if you are definitely looking for a long term relationship - postpone sex for a while. A man is likely to value you and will have the opportunity to know you better, if before your relationship becomes intimate, it may take some time. If you had sex on the first date, most likely he will not call. Or call... if he just wants to have sex.
Source:
Sex-log
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