Even the most loving people can't all spend free time alone together. Sooner or later the couple are friends of each partner. And for harmonious relations it is important that you find a common language with his friends.
Yes, it is very difficult to learn to accept and love those for whom you less time to spend with loved ones, and then watch as he comes home drunk and happy (and all this without you! ). Everything is clear with the fact that you can be unpleasant his friends, but what are the reasons you may be unpleasant for them? Why not to admire such a beautiful and smart girl, how are you? Besides, you make happy their friend. If you are worried that you may not like his friends, then try itself to become part of their world, and then such imaginary opponents you will not.
The first rule friends loved is to understand that his friends should be your friends. Forget about the fact that these people you are unpleasant, convince themselves that they are smart, funny and nice. Your man not for one second should be sure that you like his buddies. But too much zeal in this matter is also not necessary - not citywise to the banal flirting with his friends. Otherwise you can run into confusion and even fair irritation of his men. Yes friends can tell him over a beer that he wrongly associated with such a flighty girl.
The second rule is respect for the interests of his partner and his friends. Indeed, there is nothing wrong, what is your favorite wants periodically to spend time with people who are close to him in spirit. Encourage him stories about the joint pastime with friends. On the one hand, you will know exactly what is happening in the life of a loved one, when you're not around, and on the other hand, you will show him that you care about his interests. However, in no event it is impossible to make fun over his stories or to blame that this evening was held not with you. They can separate you from each other.
By following these guidelines, you will gain the respect of his friends and get to know your man.
Source:
Ivona
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