How it feels man already has a family, children, position in society, often in all respects perfectly respectable citizen. And that only half knows that from time to time he delays not at work...
Scientists keep telling us about the polygamous nature of men's nature. The male to continue the sort of tries for his life to fertilize as many females. On account of "fertilize" - I doubt whether they really want to do, changing, but to participate in a similar process, the result of which is not procreation, but simply the pleasure they obviously do not mind.
We, in turn, by all means try this nature to prevent: do everything to become the one and only, the best, sometimes offended or arrange scandals, and sometimes, unable to tolerate infidelity, leave, return, forgive or do not go back and not forgive. Try to understand why a man changes a woman is difficult, and often impossible.
And when once again, after learning about the affair on the side of his beloved, you ask: "Why? ". He looks guiltily and says: "forgive", swears that the other one nothing for him does not mean that the devil was tricked and now it will be only with you.
He actually becomes more attentive and seems you have a second honeymoon. And you forgive, or someone after the first, someone after ten times) gather your things and leave. Forever.
Reasons why infidelity happens a lot: maybe it is true, "the devil has tempted", I just wanted something new, she was too pushy, he wanted to realize his fantasies, tortured thirst for adventure.
There is such altruists who want to please as many women to improve technique. Perhaps this is also one way of self-assertion, or just another excuse for his misbehavior. In General, many things happen in life, nobody is insured against it.
Cope with the betrayal is very difficult, but, according to statistics, the older woman becomes, the more tolerant it relates to the adventures of his windy satellite. That's only if less wounds on the heart? Probably not.
For most lovers of walking on the side of the other one really doesn't mean anything, it's just a sport. At least they say so. There are personal, and have a family.
Forgive and you will be with bated breath to wait, when you hear another "bell" will not forgive and will be elbows to bite, cry in the night without a loved one and themselves to blame invincible pride. That's only if you truly love, change will not.
If you had all the most important things in life, he will think twice before you do something, what would regret later, something that could potentially hurt you. Better, of course, if you never know, and to live and know that you from time to time change so as to maintain the shape, painful and difficult.
Although there are women who say that they don't care, let the walks, because he always comes back. Who are they trying to deceive such statements: yourself or others, or just don't want to look in front of her friends unhappy and abandoned.
Arabs have a good saying: what happened once can never happen, and that happened twice will surely happen a third time. The choice is always, of course, for you to leave, to stay with the apostate, to accept or to arrange a scene. But most importantly, don't blame yourself that you are not such that do not satisfy it.
If you want to keep the loved one is near, be wiser, didn't bet between him and a wall of alienation and resentment. Of course, it will be difficult, but try to be more gentle and caring, believe me, if you dear to him, he can't do that don't want to lose you.
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