Men, like children, to old age play toys, believe everything they are told and don't want to be responsible. In principle, we are ready to accept these cute antics and even consider them to be very touching. But when all their childhood aspirations of a man crosses the threshold of the bedroom, I'd like to get head under the blanket and pretend rags.Every self-respecting woman is at least approximately represents, what do men want... in bed. Sometimes their desires are very original, and sometimes, frankly, kind of. On the uniqueness of your relationship can slowly but surely go away, and can continue on.
And then you will be tortured the same question: "why is he doing this? ". Most likely, he will be rhetorical and will remain unanswered, at least by men. But you can try to find the cause and start from the beginning with his childhood.
Let's do this quickly
Once you appear at the door, he grabs you in his arms, and you have sex right in the corridor, in the best case get to the sofa in the living room. It is practically not undresses, and you throw all that time. To bedrooms you get rare, and even if you get the number of removed clothing from this is not incremented, and the time allotted for sex, remains the same.
Such brutal sex can be very attractive and stimulant if used in moderation and not every day. This reminds quick way of expressing love teen sex when trying to catch up to the arrival of their parents, they do everything in a hurry, without removing clothes. And if during such a spicy lessons their parents still caught, then the injury can last a lifetime.
In order to save his beloved from unnecessary anxiety, try to take the reins into their own hands. Allocate sufficient time for sex. Start with a light dinner, a dance, you should be as relaxed. You can now proceed to the most important, start with light erotic massage, moving directly to the process.
Use the "woman on top", it will give you the ability to fully control the sexual act. Perhaps such a "slow and sad" sex liking and your chosen one. In severe cases, try to change the situation, especially if you make love on its territory, in the apartment where he lived or lives with his parents. The walls in this case, you are unlikely to help, quite the contrary. Look for a decent hotel or Guesthouse.
Handmade
As soon as it comes to normal sex, your partner sharply Snicket and loses to you any interest, but he will gladly lead to orgasm for you, and yourself, by hand. And he loves to watch you masturbate, and receives from this unearthly pleasure.
On the face of explicit coitophobia - fear of sexual intercourse. Apparently, the level of sexuality such men remained at the teenage level. In those days of his boyhood sex to do was impossible, but Masturbation and petting. Having a quick sexual discharge, your partner could get hooked on these methods are safe and affordable pleasure.
As a rule, these men have on a teenage level is not only sexual development, but also social and sometimes mental. So look closely at your partner may be, and in other areas of his life he remained reckless boy.
To cope with this can be done only by an experienced specialist sexologist, for only he is able to eliminate the root cause of this deviation. In any case, higher sexual pleasure he will receive only through manual stimulation.
Click on the button...
Your partner sees you as a sex machine with lots of buttons and levers, affecting which can bring you to the peak of pleasure. This makes it all very poorly and has a very rough idea of where the erogenous zones of the female half of humanity in General and yours in particular.
Perhaps he grew up in a remote village where no foot may tread educated and versed in sexual terms. But, most of all in the family were strict barriers of any information on the sexual theme. Strictly stopped reading under the covers with a flashlight books "about it" and private screenings of relevant films.
If this man you are really very expensive, have to take his sexual education into their own hands. Proceed according to the principle of "tell and show". In detail tell me what and where and how you want to caress and kiss you.
Two in a bed, not counting his mother
During foreplay, your partner begins to Lisp with you as a little girl. He says any of their actions ridiculous childish phrases, and your intimate places gives very specific names: "Kielecka", "sisechki", "house for my boy"... the Other extreme, when he wants you only when you are in the skin and with a whip in his hand, and he was bedridden and completely immobilized.
All this is a typical manifestation of the Oedipus complex, when a man has an unconscious sexual desire for his own mother. Oedipus complex is inherent in all children from 2 to 6 years, but then it gradually fades, but some particularly impressionable natures remains for life.
Depending on the style of his mom, he wants and the corresponding sex with a woman. He was pleased to think that his partner embodies the quality and style of his mother and at the same time satisfy their secret desires.
Such a man may be a very good lover. Especially he will try, if you really are somewhat similar to his mother, because he wants to be a good boy. Yes and compromises it will be very easy.
Together you can work on your intimate slang, let these words be enjoyable for both and no one cut the ears. And sometimes he is quite able to refuse whips and handcuffs and sex as you want.
Everything goes according to plan
You always make love in a certain scenario, which never changes: the classic "missionary" position, a short prelude. And after sex he quickly runs into the shower and quickly dressed. Your partner is very wary of your rationalization proposals and any innovations perceived in bayonets.
Perhaps he is a seasoned conservative, but on the face of all the signs of a catastrophic lack confidence in their own abilities. And this is wonderful as are the easiest inculcated in childhood: nedoljubili, nedovolili parents, there were difficulties in communicating with peers and the opposite sex. The result is a stable complex of inferiority. As a teenager, insecure man chooses a tarmac road and is afraid to stray off course, afraid to try something new, and suddenly will not work... what is the bitterness of defeat, he knows neponaslyshke.
In such cases, learn how to pay compliments. Praise his body, his rich inner world, his ability to bring you pleasure. But just do not overdo it. Compliments should not resemble coarse flattery, possibly only one bit of its originality in bed. Although you will not be far from the truth, because soon it will be so.
Boys don't cry
He is anxious lover and gives you a lot of fun, but you get the impression that he is from sex does not get any pleasure. And even during orgasm not a muscle tremble on his face, and he will be there like a fish. The reason for such discipline you will look at yourself and blame yourself first of all for its failure in bed, and in vain.
You got emotionally closed type men. The strongest impressions we experience as children and adolescents at this age it is easy to get emotional trauma that will have a very strong influence on the rest of my life.
Apparently, this is his case - he could impress a bad experience family life as a parent or a failed first love.
Will need a lot of patience to your favorite for you to become an open book. Show by example, how and when to Express their emotions.
Take the first step, tell him that you really like and don't demand a response of recognition. Believe me, if it comes, it will be a long time.
Author:
Galonska D.
Source:
MyJane
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