They were invented by the psychoanalysts, and use everything. No, it's not the couch. We are talking about complexes - the term commonly used. However, it is not always clear what is behind this term.Most "notorious" means excessively timid, inhibited, and the man without complexes perceived as devoid of shyness, grasping and impudent. This everyday understanding of the complexes as close to one complex - the complex of inferiority.
Its discoverer Alfred Adler believed that the inferiority complex is everyone. This is due to the fact that in childhood each of us have experienced helplessness and dependence on adults, seemingly omnipotent. The condition is unpleasant, but because it is usually pressed into the unconscious and requires compensation, then there is evidence of their own power and wealth.
Eventually the pendulum swings in the opposite direction: people committed to different achievements, real or imaginary, to recognition. The reason is that it begins to operate complex hypercompetitive, which, in fact, is the flip side of inferiority complex.
Adler argued that the complex hypercompetitive - "fuel", on which the man works all his life, trying to shake the feeling of weakness, dependence and insolvency.
In other words, the people we used to call "easy", actually live and act under the influence of hypercompetitive.
Freud and other...
To guess about the origin of the term "complex" is not so difficult. The sense of language tells us that this kind of combination. Minimum information about psychoanalysis suggests that the essence, perhaps in childhood and the unconscious. Errors there. Complexes is defined as experience that occurred in the past, depressed and repressed into the unconscious, but guiding our current behavior.
The discoverer of the complexes was Freud, but his disciples, and third-party analysts so liked the explanation of human behavior using complexes that they invented to Freud, a dozen new ones.
Indeed, the complex may be a universal explanation for all, you only need to become skilled in its use.
Example 1
Given: Hunger, farmers selected grains. Farmers, respectively, hiding their own grain. The boy reported to the authorities, and where he hid his father. After a few days the boy was killed, and the father prosecuted.
Who: Pavlik Morozov.
Explanation: the Oedipus complex - the desire of the son to the mother and a hostile attitude to the father, which is dictated by the desire to take the place of the father.
Example 2
Given: Happy marriage, my husband's business is mediocre, the family is ensured. But one day is not long enough working wife tells her husband that she had stayed at home, want self-realization and therefore gets to work on not only God knows what position.
Who:
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Explanation: the castration complex, the children's reaction to sex differences, specifically: on the penis. His absence, according to Freud, is the girls envy, they begin to dream about having the same thing. Because to have such a thing impossible, the woman begins to aspire to power and try on male social role.
... and other complexes
Complex Griselda - the unconscious desire of the father to save his daughter for himself, manifested in the refusal of all the contenders for her hand.
Complex Ions. Named after the biblical character, who considered himself unworthy to be a prophet. Is that the person experiences fear of success and reduces their claims.
Complex POLYCRETE. Named after the ruler of the Greek island of Samos, extremely lucky in all things. Unwilling to incur the wrath of the gods, he was thrown into the sea precious ring in the form of a kind of sacrifice. The next day was caught fish in the belly of which they found a ring of POLYCRETE. The complex is expressed in the feeling of anxiety as you approach the different achievements.
Complex Jocasta is a mirror image of the Oedipus complex. If there is sexual desire of the son to the mother, then why not be a pathological desire of the mother to her own son? "Product" complex Jocasta - Mama's sons, vigilant parental control for their own child.
Complex Cain is jealous older brother to the younger, who get more parental attention and care. Psychoanalysts believe that it can cause neurosis.
Actually, looking at the huge list of sites created by Freudians and postregister, can become uncomfortable. If you are not an orphan, then you will certainly find the Oedipus complex or Electra complex. If you have a child, you provided (depending on gender) or the Jocasta complex, or complex Griselda. And it is very important that you not set the Medea complex, consisting in the desire to harm their own children to avenge her husband.
In short, the issue is brewing. The more confident he is formulated as: don't do stuff - all of these complexes? ". I tend to trust a stranger to the concepts he transformed into "How can I do? ".
Psychoanalysts believe that the complexes are an integral part of the spiritual life of man. They contain not only the obstacles, but also can give rise to any challenges. As to whether or not to rely entirely on the psychoanalytic interpretation of our inner life, I'd like to say: I am not the boss. Excessive trust can lead to the tendency to interpret any of their intention as a secret complex, the desire for incestuous relations and penis envy. On the other hand, the psychoanalytic approach is good because it can, for example, to relieve feelings of guilt for strange dream or to help show a different angle on the situation.
The newest complexes of modernity
By the mid-twentieth century, the times and manners is very easy to invent complex, it was only necessary to take some well-known situation. Since ancient mythology was known to very few, the complex already had no meaning to call the name of the antique character. Enough to give him the name of some celebrity - and it's in the bag. And the essence of the newest complexes was not so much to the unconscious motives that guide behavior, and then get permission, as to the behavior of this star.
It appeared:
Complex Marilyn Monroe
What is? The woman has not formed a view about their own values. To understand, it is a something or not, it can only reaction to their sexual partners. Therefore, it is strongly pleases them to increase their own eyes the value.
Actually: this is one of the manifestations of inferiority complex, coupled with low self-esteem.
Complex unrecognized genius
What is? People constantly dissatisfied with his life and others, conflicts with management, a long time is not delayed in any workplace.
The reality: in most cases, such a misunderstood genius - just inflated self-esteem plus the inability to build relationships with others. Question about the genius of such individual remains controversial.
The Napoleon Complex
What is? It is believed that this desire for special achievements in social and love life, peculiar stunted men.
Actually: what do we get? Hypercompetition in pure form. Interestingly, the so-called Napoleon complex has long bothered the minds of researchers, suggesting that short men aggressiveness above. Alas, the experiment is absolutely not confirmed due to the aggressive growth. And on each undersized aggressor (usually referred to as Stalin, Lenin, Goebbels) there is a tall bin Laden or Saddam Hussein.
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