Refuse to start from the conservative views of the world and acknowledge that the doll is a toy for children, and not just for girls. Therefore, there is nothing wrong in that your son enthusiastically sings lullabies to her, feeds and rolls in the chair. Balls, blocks, cars and other toys, of course, important for the child: they develop the intellect and imagination. But to teach the child to cope with their own emotions no less important. At preschool age in children is a trust relationship to the world: they try to understand themselves and others. And here comes to the aid of the doll.
The doll allows your baby to experience life for fun, and it promotes the development of imagination. In addition, this toy helps the child to stay in a foreign place": he gives the doll thoughts, feelings and desires, and, playing, learning not only to look at ourselves, but also to interact with others. With the doll, the child can play different conflict situations, with whom he has encountered in his tiny but busy life. Here, parents need to keep my ears open and pay attention to what stories insanire son: not aggressive are they? Using these observations we can conclude than filled the child's life and do his communication. All your worries kid pours in the game: the doll your son can tell what will not tell you directly.
It happens that the boy calls the doll your name. In other words, identifies himself with this toy. Why is he doing this? Most likely, the kid simply have nowhere to take courage, for example, to enter a dark room. In such cases, the necessary courage is endowed with a "small double", and a child holding a doll by the hand, overcomes his fear.
When to change the static toys come roleplay, girls are fond of playing daughters and mothers, where the dolls act as children. Not thuswise, if your son not to tear away from this game. Small "Pope", "the brothers" and "friends" in this "family" is also needed. In addition, the male role can be in other games. For example, your son, the driver, and the doll in the passenger. If the kid plays in the hospital, dolls can become patients. 's a lot of options, but this is another plus Hobbies dolls: little boy can "try on" a lot of social "costumes". No designers and machines of this, he will not give.
Another interesting point is that the images of men, created by toy manufacturers in the imagination of boys and girls is significantly different. If girls in the world this man is principally Ken, for the boys hero generally poorly like a man. Transformers, Batman, or warriors, from head to toe hung weapons, such explosive mixture and is, as a rule, the male image in my head of a little boy. Such one-sided images are not only limited to children in the variants of the game, but also lay the Foundation for future misunderstandings between heterosexual peers.
And again, the doll turns out to be the ideal way out: her floor is usually not matter to the child.
Scientists from the University of Pennsylvania has shown that children who have a child play only in "traditional" toys, then form common patterns of behavior. Of these kids often grow up to be people who are not able to find the way out of a precarious situation. But those children who are not limited in toy preferences, as adults, demonstrate outstanding intellectual abilities and achievements in life much more than boys, who always behaved "like a man" or girls that age have grown "real lady".
So do not deprive your child playing with doll: to explore the relationship between people, to understand themselves and others, to throw out the accumulated over a long day emotions and develop original, creative thinking - all this just need the baby taking its first tentative steps in life.
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