My husband is a sissy

He praises her dishes and rushes to her on the first call... is it Normal that a grown man who already has his own family, too close with his mother?


Let's try to look at this situation from a slightly different angle. Try to determine the advantages of this behavior of men. In one American study says that the so-called "Mama's sons have the best communication skills and the ability to empathize with than those who have "cut the cord". It turns out that the man, who is very close with his mother, more likely to be a faithful husband and a wonderful father.




Such men can easily Express their thoughts, they are more generous with kind and gentle words, they understand women's needs, and most importantly - they are great listeners.




But, undoubtedly, to "Mama's sons" are treated with prejudice not just. The woman is hard to reconcile with the fact that her man is very attached to another woman. However, we advise you to be less focused on the fact that your husband's mother pays a lot of attention, accept it as a given.




At the same time, it is important to establish certain boundaries. If he, for example, answers her phone call in intimate moments, or cancels your plans for her sake, you must firmly but diplomatically, to Express their opinion. Tell the man that you understand his reverent attitude to the mother, but you're in - command, which must first build their own relationship. Offer loved to call my mom during a break at work, explain that it should not come without invitation or when you decide to spend time alone.




Despite the fact that most women like it when a man does not hide his emotions, sometimes they can be too much. Too many "feminine" man should not be. Do cleverly. Sprovieri it to some male occupations. Send a poker game to her husband's girlfriend, tell me what you wildly roars, when he changes the oil in your car or drive nails...




Oh yeah, and as if you wanted to, in a conversation with my husband (even during fights), avoid the words "sissy", even if he is an outstanding representative of this category of men.

Source:

Ivona

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