Yesterday's sweetheart-today's copernica.
Some people live by the principle of "the less you know, better sleep, and try not to go into the details of the love stories of their men. Others want to know every detail and are of the opinion that the loved ones should not have secrets from each other. Each woman decides for herself what amount of information about the past loved it necessary that to find out, to be sure, but better than not to mention...
Ex girlfriend
Constantly doubt the sincerity of men, afraid that sooner or later he will return to the former, means to deny relationships the chance to become strong and long-lasting. First of all you should understand, really loved gives reason to think so or it is not in him and in you? At some points you should pay special attention.
Conversations
Your man remembers his former girl at every opportunity. Tasting salad, says that Mary (Anya, Katya) added more potatoes and less mayonnaise - so tasty! If you are going to spend you vacation in Turkey, in great detail describes how once rested there on the other. Such stories, in most cases, a bad sign: it is likely that he really still thinks about the former. However, maybe you got a unique man who sincerely believe that you all are interested, and no special meaning in this kind of talk does not invest.
Meetings
The situation is not too pleasant, although quite simple: many former lovers continue to communicate after the couple broke up. You should pay attention to the small details: how much time they spend together, occur alone or in the company of friends, introduced it with you and much more. If the relationship is quite harmless, only you can decide whether to try to force to break them. The fact that he not only wants to see the former, but its defiantly ignores or responds very unpleasant, may also mean that the feelings are still not cool. Perhaps the initiator of the breakup was a girl, what your beloved is still regrets.
Circle
If your darling and his ex have mutual friends, parting, he is unlikely to cease to meet with others. And claim it would be the height of selfishness. He will acquaint you with their company, and you personally will make sure that nothing dangerous for a relationship there does not occur. The reason to worry will appear, if a man will not do: you can, meet up with friends - the reason to see the former girl.
Second family
If the man was already married, the reason for jealousy appears very serious. This is not just a girl, with whom your lover relationship, even severe and lasting. Reasons to continue communication with his ex-wife after the divorce, he can be very many, and most important of them are, of course, children. If the husband takes an active part in their education, contacts with former wife for him inevitable. Some of my free time, holidays, vacations and holidays he will hold to the former family.
However, it is with children and not with his wife, and to be jealous in this case makes no sense. If you accept this communication you are not prepared, in relationships hardly ever will be in peace and harmony. It happens that children from a previous marriage the man has no contact with the former spouse nevertheless continue. To say that his feelings are still not extinguished, with certainty is impossible, but to remain calm in such a situation by virtue of not every woman.
Well, if the communication is reduced to the birthday card on her birthday and occasional phone calls. But if your man whenever possible, seeks to help ex-wife, explaining that "she can't", and regularly spends time with her because "she's lonely", at least it is alarming! Try to talk openly with loved ones, to explain to him that this behavior is hateful to you. If after talking nothing will change, should seriously think...
Why?
When a man begins a relationship with you, it is logical to assume that in his last novel he had already put all points above "I". However, this is not always true.
Wedge wedge...
"The best way to forget about previous relationships - start new. This is a very common method, by the way, both genders. Most men can quickly forget one woman by another. This is because in view of the weaker sex of the concept of "love" and "compassion go hand in hand. And when a man get, terminates the relationship, the woman is often genuinely does not understand what the cause of the break, not knowing that was just the cure for love...
In spite
Often men have an affair with the sole purpose to cause jealousy among former lover. In this case, they are doing everything possible to the one for which this step has been taken, learned about a new passion, and it is better to see with your own eyes. Such novels usually begin very nice, man behaves courteously and courteous. However, such relationships are doomed to failure. Ends or the reconciliation of men with a former girlfriend, or disappointment, if his efforts did not bring the expected result.
To make it
Some men, breaking for some reason the relationship with his girlfriend, in a new novel strive to do the opposite. In other words, looking for a suitable in all respects a woman, to which experience strong feelings, believing that it's easier to build relationships, and in case of failure easier to pass through the gap. Of course, any parting - an occasion to reflect and analyze what the relationship was not so. A man often believes the cause of the break strong feelings, and therefore, if not formed with the favorite goes with loving. On the one hand, it looks selfish, on the other - these relationships are strong and harmonious, because in the absence of feelings is much easier to accept the fact that not satisfied with the behavior of the second half - for example, not be so anxious to limit her personal freedom.
To be or not to be?
Of course, each loving woman wants reciprocity, and to realize that the man still has feelings for the former, it is not easy. Whether it is necessary in this case to build relationships, the issue is complicated, it all depends on your situation. One not feeling the favourite stops, others, on the contrary, encourage us, and they are beginning to act " for fun". Still others believe that the lack of his men, but take it for what is. In any case, such a strange, at first glance, the relationship has a chance to become strong and long-lasting. So, if you're sure that the man is worth it, why not fight for their own happiness?
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