Jealousy is obvious
Remember the story of Pavlov's dog, which had triggered a reflex from the flash lit light bulb? Practically, the same thing happens with a jealous person. Standing signal, and then the problem starts from the fact that the brain ceases to think logically and adequately.
With the same success it occurs in both men and women. But the male jealousy is far easier. Now, let's say, comes Ivanov her girlfriend Masha, and she sits Petrov - in shorts and flip-flops. That Ivanov acts as a flashing light on the Pavlov's dog, causing him to be jealous and growl "do you Pray at night? "
On the spot Ivanova so would any normal man. Even if it turned out that Petrov saved a drowning person nearby, and Masha it only dries pants and drinking tea with raspberry jam, so as not to become infected with influenza. Obvious signs make a man jealous of in addition to will. But if not, he's not going to fantasize and to cater for questioning. Male jealousy is always the target, of course, if your PM is not a clinical paranoid maniac. But the girls target jealousy in its pure form is extremely rare. If Maria will notice that Ivanov kissing a complete stranger to the blonde, even without signs of sex bomb, somewhere two chances out of ten that it will end just a fighting game. In most cases, the man the rest of my life will be identified as suspicious and untrustworthy entity.
The subconscious jealousy
Typical female jealousy is based on a purely intuitive level. Even if after the bachelor party girl will not find on the shirt of his Martyr lipstick and a coat - of someone else's hair, it will still be uncomfortable. That is, it will seem especially suspicious. Partly the lack of trust caused by evolution itself. Anxious vigilance was the girls in fashion back in those ancient times, when they sewed dresses from skins waiting for the hunters of mammoths. Woman with offspring without male breadwinner then, no kidding, was doomed to death by starvation. So you had to be constantly alert.
Add to the ancient instinct of high emotions and hormonal imbalance, and it will become clear that girls do not choose to be jealous or not. For them it is akin to physiological needs. However, it does not matter. Girls willing to go on about their own jealousy and without hesitation lose your head, that's a pity. I know from experience: women are often jealous, because she's simply nothing else to do. When she has a favorite thing, friends or interesting book nearby, she will not themselves be screwed. Mental and physical activity is a great way to keep yourself in hand.
Jealousy from an overabundance of emotions
Every man nice when he enthusiastically tell how cool he is. But if after a few days exploring he gets a hundred and fifteen sms, not counting the messages on ICQ, then seriously thinking not to lie down if he is on the bottom in any suitable Bruges? Girls too ardent and impressionable, you need to have on their emotional fever reciprocate. But always maintain a romantic glow to the man hard. He sincerely does not understand why all the time to convince the girl that she cherished and loved. It's obvious, otherwise they would simply not have been a pair. Therefore, he did not respond to her last message, especially if it is really busy. And here the problems begin.
Throwing himself into the maelstrom of the relationship, the girl believes that the partner will inevitably dive after him. And begins to suspect terrible, if he remains silent for as much as two hours! ". As soon as he gets in range, she pounces on him with jealous accusations. "I do not understand! " - he beats the first attack. As soon angry really. Man does not analyze past events (just don't see the point - if he is guilty, and so knows this). So jealous hitting perceives as an attempt to make him podkabluchnika. And the more insistent she will require a report where he was and what he did, the sooner he comes to the conclusion that without him breathe much easier.
Jealousy of the former
Ex-girlfriend of my friend Mukhina photographer, lives in another country. One day she wrote Mukhina in the "Classmates" that is going to come to his hometown with his photo and asked me to take her to different places where I had planned to take pictures. For old time's sake, but not for free but for a fee.
Learning of this, a friend Mukhina got hysterical, promising to drink the entire home first aid kit and disable the phone if he will agree. Had to be encrypted and not to get in touch. What Mukhin still regrets - girlfriend still it threw...
Girls are often in a hurry with conclusions (I would say almost always). Although jealousy of the former sometimes not unfounded. Sometimes sleep with them. It happens that from time to time. But if a man is willing to change, then what is the difference, with whom? And the presence of former passions can have special meaning only in one case - if your relationship to him is not too comfortable.
Jealousy phantom
Our editorial artist Boris somehow stayed the night at archival newspaper sheet set, because the morning had quarreled with his wife. What is Boris did not confess. And I understand the reason was utterly stupid and ridiculous. Second barina half jealous husband to "Princesse" from LJ, which he never saw in his eyes (and specially to meet for the sake of it, by the way, was not collected).
But who said that the object of jealousy may not have a direct relationship to man? That can't be jealous of Actresses, hostesses, girls on promotions or from the magazine "Playboy"? And really jealous (Boris, learn the facts! ). Truly, no joke. Wives and girlfriends require that the man did not look the other way, because he already went to all the best. "Otherworldly" male attention they perceive as an insult and a hint of their own shortcomings. Sorry.
Because the man in the head for sensual pleasure is responsible hypothalamus, and for the love of another think tank. And require men to combine all in relation to his only beloved illegal. Yes and pointless - in what direction he had not looked, he still loves her.
Jealousy preventive
Not only men can mark the territory. Say it with the confidence of a man who discovered during the last transfer lace Thong, with the mistress of which we are now just friends. Jealousy it I wasn't exhausted, I will not lie. And case when she was asked to change our seats in the restaurant, where at the table opposite was relaxible pretty brown hair in ultradiscrete, is not considered. This was done not out of malice, but for prevention.
In the framework of the jealous girls fully trust a male word. But gradually check the degree of its reliability. So, for example, do not consider it shameful to get into someone else's mail and do not hesitate to clarify the facts of men's private correspondence. Or suddenly during sex wonder why you Egorova together go to dinner. And Egorova - your colleague, which is of interest to you only as a very good programmer. And for you a solid mystery why the details of office life are well-known your girl working at the other end of the city.
Feel in such moments it is extremely uncomfortable (like the man who is in the toilet with a camera). Vigilance for even any kind of prevention does not justify besceremonnosti. Especially if her masked trivial complexes.
Strange jealousy
Jealousy and how to get rid of it. The tips of the victim including 1
Jealousy and how to get rid of it. Tips injured including 2
Author:
Borisov-Bitter About.
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