The husband runs away from sex

Currently, it is very hard to find a middle ground between the regular problems that take all the free time, and presence in bed, regular sex life. Unfortunately, few women can boast of a man who listens to the desires of his wife. Often, the physical presence of her husband in bed is not to say that "the evening was a success". And, of course, there are periods during which the sex in family relations, is missing.



The next man, and regular sex no.


Today, there is such a thing as a sex cult. Almost all information sources, whether it be TV, radio, press, just say one thing: How to attract a partner? That should be taken to enhance sexual function, both men and women? How to become a bitch?




But, if you look at the concept of sex, in the truest sense of the word, we can see that it is only a physiological need. The same as the need for food, water and normal healthy lifestyle.





Tips, which are impossible to follow.



A radical change of image.


Most women, when faced with the problem of inattention, loss of interest, on the part of their husbands resort to a change of image. The idea is that this measure should have an excellent result. Yes, exactly, but this result is not durable. Moving outside, we remain unchanged inside. New hair color, makeup, updated closet, will not give confidence to the woman. In turn, the man can these actions be regarded as unnecessary waste. A woman can hear the answer, for all its attempts to establish with her husband eye contact: "Honey, you and that color was good. Last year, the dress you are more than this new skirt, which, in his opinion, too short".





The ultimatum does not solve the problem.


Typically, most women are emotional. Knowing all the advantages, the woman considers herself Queen. As a result, begins to stick to her husband with the requirements regarding the failure to fulfill his marital duties. Argues that it manages not only to cope with the housework, but do not forget about yourself, looking after themselves.




As a result, you can see that the above tips, in real life, do not have the strength that we promise magazines. The only true way out of this situation is a compromise.




I'll try to provide some tips in solving this problem.




Try to look at the situation from the perspective of the husband.




Exposing certain requirements to your spouse, think about what you can offer him in return. Maybe your husband feels that he is trying and doing everything to make the relationship former passion. Perhaps he sacrifices himself for the sake of the family, and specifically, it is for you.




Try to establish emotional contact.




Everyone knows that nothing comes out of nowhere, and does not disappear anywhere. In order to get out of a relationship is what you seek, you must first himself, something to give. You can start with a serious conversation with her husband. Need to figure out what claims have accumulated it to you. Certainly, he also has something to say to you. Try not to stall to cry, and listen to and accept the above.





A little talk.


After hearing claims, try not to aggravate the situation. If within a certain period of time, which you agreed with her husband, there will not be any changes, do not stand in the pose. Changes certainly occurred, perhaps not to the extent where I wanted you, but they happened. And blame the wife for it - not worth it. Perhaps those small changes that he went for you, was it hard enough.




We can conclude that if your spouse has problems of physiological plan, the first thing that comes to mind is the help of a specialist. And the right decision in this situation, there will be a joint trip to the doctor. But before you decide on this, you need to discuss everything at home. Without trust and sincere conversation, to solve the problem would be impossible.

Source:

Sex-log

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