"Wife, which contain the house in perfect order, is a wife that is more like a house than a husband," said once known for its many famous Polish artist and journalist Janine Pohorska.
If you catch yourself thinking that you like to do household chores, and you're not in a hurry, if you get pleasure from cleaning in the closet and washing, if you are considering a nostalgic photos you don't want company, so you have a spirit of gistii.
Where grow her legs?
Hestia is the Greek goddess, the daughter of Kronos and Rhea, sister of Zeus. She first was swallowed by his father and the last one was released.
She had a long time to be alone. Of course, this could not impose a mark on her character. Privacy and immersed in himself is the main personality traits of gistii.
Zeus gave her the privilege, under which she was worshiped in every home. This is a very revered goddess of the hearth, the lady of peace and grace. Among the Romans this goddess was called Vesta. The status of the priestesses of Vesta in the ancient world was very high. If convicted led to his execution, and he accidentally met a vestal virgin, it was released in the same time people have seen the will of the goddess.
The awakening of gistii in women
The revival of this archetype in the woman gives a sense of harmony, peace and isolation. This is one of the most self-sufficient goddesses. She finds inner peace through intuition and meditation. This woman is the personification of loneliness, to which she constantly strive. She doesn't need other people, she has no need to support or approval. She is very wise and calm, silent and isolated, as if detached from everything. And if you now mind was the word "nun", all right. Women dominated the archetypal behavior of the goddess of gistii, most of all his life associated with religious communities, a lot of time dedicating prayers.
Psychological qualities women-gistii:
- wise;
tolerant;
- attentive;
- introverted;
- modest;
self - sufficient;
- emotionally balanced;
not ambitious;
- stable and imperturbable;
- focused;
- does not seek to change.
Relationships with others
One of the distinctive features of women-Gesti is non-interference. She never supports an atmosphere of intrigue, gossip, gossip. Usually, she has a few friends. By temperament girlfriend similar to each other. Hestia hospitable, and find a Board-balance, which gives support, understanding, balance and soothes. This woman is wise enough, she didn't rebuke and not criticizing. But emotionally regret and "cry," as the goddess Demeter. You will receive adequate feedback that will help yourself to find out.
To her children she is very reasonable, gives them a lot of independence that allows you to choose your own path. Women-gistii emotionally detached and as it is not included in the education of their children. However, children are not "running", do not try to escape from the house of gistii, because that's where they draw the harmony, comfort, and integrity.
Surrounding it is often said: "She is his mind". Seemingly docile, compliant, and not conflict, but it acts independently and at their own discretion.
Relationships with men
In relationships with men women-gistii very controversial. On the one hand, these are the best wives. They never "saw" their husbands, and not feel the slightest desire to learn anything about their Affairs, but they don't need their help at home. But there is another side to the coin. If a man wants in a woman sexy, loving Muse, Hestia is not the case. Under the authority of this goddess, a woman well satisfied with their personal lives with male Hermesi. This is the case when a man is "all business" and earn good money and can afford intrigues with other women, and the wife-Hestia prefers not to pay attention to such trifles. Women of this type are not ambitious, they are not direct and pushing, like Hera, your man towards development, career growth. They simply and quietly agree with everything.
Scope
Female Athena engaged in home cleaning, because I planned to do it; Demeter will spend time on this activity only if somebody; Artemis motivates the house chores, if it for that day you need to have time to do another "bunch of things". And only Hestia is infinitely "dig" in their domestic Affairs, and to enjoy and to harmonize the internal state.
It should be noted that women, being under the influence of this archetypal behavior, choose an activity that requires patience and calmness: kindergarten teachers, administrators, health workers, Church Ministers. Gistii not aspire to fame, career growth, popularity, recognition, and, conversely, want to be invisible, to spend more time alone.
The stereotype image
There is a stereotype image of "Cinderella". She is trusting, close, continually washes, cleans, removes. Never asks for nothing in return. "Cinderella" always neatly dressed, but the clothes prefer not branded. Them some intuitive flair manages to combine harmoniously the colors in the clothes, so the result is a natural, holistic, nothing more. In their appearance they do not draw attention to yourself, do not enjoy the decorations. Cross, some not visible mascot - not more. If "Cinderella" to offer grey coat with red buttons, she take it, but the red buttons will be replaced with black. Cinderella have good manners, they are hospitable, friendly, but explicit emotion you won't notice. They are silent, their speech is smooth, the voice is not loud, pleasant, sincere.
Given the preferences in life, its main motto is "not stand out", to be invisible. These women are usually showing calmness, absence of conflict and peace. Therefore, prefer a few stylistic solutions: casual style, denim, ethnic style, minimalism.
Ways of development of women-gistii
The woman who remains under the authority of this archetype, is experiencing difficulties in establishing communication with others, it is not adapted to overcome the difficulties. It's hard for her to make an effort to ask or request anything for himself. It is difficult to achieve something because of the lack of assertiveness and determination. Awakening in himself Athena or Artemis, she will be able to stand up for themselves and realize their potential in life. An appeal to the archetypal behavior of Hera will help you to become more valuable and important for the spouse to lose the image of a "faceless woman". And one of constructive steps to overcome itself and beyond the archetypal behavior is the formation of a harmonious image that will allow a woman-gistii to be different.
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