Suffice it to say: "My boss is a woman", as in response dealt chorus of condolences. However, neither the social structure of society, or historical epoch, neither the company does not have absolutely no value: boss-a woman is always and everywhere a punishment, and well, if a decent salary.
The first acquaintance
Going for an interview and knowing that your future boss of the same sex, throw away all illusions. The cost of your clothes and shoes, cosmetics, handbag and jewelry will be evaluated with an accuracy of up to 10 UAH.
And if, God forbid, your potential rabotodatelnitsy boots no more than your or model of last season is a reason to hear: "Thank you, will contact you". Which means that you can not see. To avoid such problems, it would be good to remember the experience, intelligence and conduct a preliminary investigation. If in the same office does your girlfriend, that information will be complete and exhaustive. Then the annoying "puncture" just be avoided.
But if not reliable live source, then come to the aid of the all-knowing Internet: some information, but to get there you.
Survival conditions
The first and most important condition for the survival under the leadership of lady-boss - not to make workplace fights without rules. The result, alas, predictable 100%: the winner will be senior positions.
Therefore, it is necessary to make a clear analysis of own strengths and weaknesses boss and clearly understand: your dignity they are also your weaknesses, they need to hide. Disadvantages same employer in a regular schedule is not provided.
The main principle in any office: never, under any "sauce" not to discuss the boss with fellow ladies. Even if you want it! Superhuman effort of will "step" on his tongue and databyte before the lunch break or home, when you can explain your observations beloved girlfriend. Subject: you don't work together, she doesn't know and will never know personally your boss.
Otherwise you risk a lot more Stirlitz! One careless phrase, dropped some of her friends at work that you allegedly bragged about his waist, which is 3 cm shorter than the head and all: the enemy is provided to you. While the enemy is cunning, satifsy a big upset and just waiting to strike back.
One of my friend is an architect so lost a very good job. At some corporate holiday, lightly go over wine and losing vigilance, she allowed herself to openly comment on the size of the feet of the Manager. She, poor thing, was making superhuman efforts to hide their 40th paw, never bought shoes in the company of colleagues and was extremely painful reaction to girls with leg Cinderella.
Had my friend to look for another job.
The boss - not a girlfriend!
One of the most common misconceptions that with the boss you can make friends. The General principle is at work, no friends, it works with educationai force. Make friends with a female boss is impossible by definition.
First, you immediately and forever will hate others, firmly confident: if you are a friend of the boss, then "knock" on colleagues.
Secondly, the old adage "Away from the authorities closer to the kitchen" will never lose its relevance.
If you still decided to make friends with the boss and even started to copy her style of dress, hair and make-up, know you: it's more than a mistake, it is foolishness, the payment for which is the loss of confidence and personality.
In this office employee just wanted to make friends with the boss. And, as is typical for women, purely automatically, she began to imitate. Colleagues quietly laughed, calling her "our clone", and all was relatively peaceful. Until, one day, the boss not to be confused with a subform in another office. With a sweet smile lady named sub, also visited the office, and made a compliment appearance.
Back in the office the boss was flying on a broom rage and anger. The subordinate had to hurry to repaint the hair, change clothes and to seek asylum in another Department.
We're of the same sex
Of great importance to work with a female head has an understanding of simple physiological fact that you both her women. And for nature are all equal and no social status will not help here.
Exactly as you have it once a month sharply spoils the mood, begin uncontrollable crying, nervousness, and a burning desire to strangle everyone.
Be forgiving: it is, precisely, will take place. And find a job with a male boss can and will fail.
When the boss-opponent
The worst case is when the boss is at the stage of seeking happiness in his personal life. Work under the guidance of a ladies daily 8-hour RAID on a minefield: you never know what the outcome will be, but always know what risk.
Worried by the absence of a stamp in the passport or boyfriend, the boss eagle eye appraises your team and the type of wedding rings on the right hand sub-automatically wakes it all complexes.
Of course, it is not necessary before the start of the working day, remove the ring or wrap the finger with an adhesive plaster. But really would be nice in the presence of the authorities not too Frank about the merits of the husband or yesterday's trip to his parents, who you gave the coat.
Special passions flare up if the boss decided to lay their hands a colleague who was clearly not indifferent to you. This situation is dangerous for all three.
The boss runs the risk of reputation and credibility in the eyes of subordinates, which everyone can see and gloat: a piquant "triangle" is a great relaxation in your everyday work.
You run the risk of endless nagging, real likely never get better pay and vacation in the summer.
The most difficult position of your admirer. At the same time tearing a lot of feelings. One of them is so typical of men "paulinism", from the word peacock. It was chosen because of his quarrel ladies - how not to dissolve the lush peacock tail.
The second is fear. Yes, do not be fooled in 99 cases, our Cavaliers are most afraid of... miscalculate. Let you are young and attractive, but the boss has an apartment, a car and the opportunity to contribute to its rapid career.
And, most likely, what you have to make a choice: either to leave or to refuse admirer. Possible compromise: all continue to work together, the boss of the glowing eyes, and you begin to silently hate weekends and holidays.
Life goes on!
The idea that we need to immediately abandon the place, if the boss is a woman, absolutely non-constructive. In our difficult times it is just a luxury and, then, no one can guarantee that the head-man will not be neuro-hysterical creation with sexual problems.
So set yourself: a woman is the boss, of course, the punishment, but for the paycheck! And all will turn out!
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