Going on vacation, 90% of men and 80% women dream resort novel. What are the pros and cons of this vibrant but short of love? Scientists at the University of Oregon (USA) scientifically proved recently that we all know from life: sunlight improves mood. The sound of the surf like a human pulse it relaxes and fills the soul with peace. Salt sea water composition identical to the composition of human blood, and, bathing it, we return to the lost Paradise where you were before birth. What is missing in this Paradise, it's the man who loved us, admired us and tried to do everything to make it even better.
Daria M.: "I was vacationing in nice, came just a week. Once I get out of the hotel and see at the entrance under a palm tree red Ferrari - as a symbol of dreams. I asked the owner for permission to photograph the car. He gladly agreed, and invited me to appear on the background of the car. And then we were driving on a winding mountain road, and my hair flying in the wind. Gerard took me to the small pretty town, where rarely see tourists. When I went home, me in the room brought a huge bouquet of roses. And then our bus for a long time was driving a red Ferrari, and the man behind the wheel waved her hand to me".
Carnival by the sea
Holiday romance similar to the carnival. You can drastically change your style of dress to come up with a different biography, behave differently than usual. In every woman lives actress. And South of the city - just finished decoration to any Mexican melodrama: sea, palm trees, night surf, light breeze tenderly on your face. But where is macho? And here he is tanned, in a Hawaiian shirt and shorts. Hot look from under his eyebrows, your subtle smile in response... All the "soap Opera" began...
And you can do the opposite: to be the week or two who you really are. No need to pretend, to maintain the image. I such what is. And if you don't like, a week will go away and you will forget about me. As I am about you. In this situation, often triggered "effect of the hitcher": knowing that was going to break up with someone, you can tell him that hid even from her closest friend.
Svetlana R.: "I'm not going to have some novels on the resort. This man came to me in a nightclub and said I was cool dance. And then offered to meet his friends. His friends really were very nice, friendly people. I told my lover to sex, he did not expect. And when the party ended, and he walked me through, for some reason I told him all about myself.
With him was so easy, nice and calmly, as with anyone ever in my life. We had a whole week walking along the beach, along the promenade evening, and the lips themselves were stretched in a smile. And yet... we kissed. Firmly, passionately, before losing momentum. And passing by honked us. When we parted, I told him: "I'm really sorry that we were not making love." He said: "It was your choice".
Pros resort novel
1. You get a surge of emotions, life will sparkle with new colors. To feel the pulse of its existence, it is necessary to alternate periods of calm with emotional meltdown. Holiday romance just knocks us out of the dreary succession of everyday life.
2. If the relationship with a man on vacation will be a success, you will feel desirable and attractive. Upon arrival, the woman looks a hundred times better than after the most expensive SPA treatments.
3. Paradoxically, once the resort of the novel improved relationship with her husband or boyfriend. (Of course, if you have enough sense not to tell about their adventures and not repent of their sins! ) Came home with a positive attitude, you may reduce the level of requirements to its second half. And it always goes in favor of the relationship.
4. And why, in the end, a holiday romance must end with a parting forever? Certainly, each of us has friends who met at the resort. Many of us, life is running in circles: work-home. And to meet new people simply nowhere. Azure sea, light Martini cocktail at the seaside restaurant, walking on the night beach - the perfect setting for the beginning of the novel is real and not just a resort.
But what you don't have to do is to set a goal: to have a holiday romance. Now the roles reversed: the girls already do not stand on the sidelines, they now boldly enter in the bar, throwing the winning views on men. Come for Roman men also can be seen from afar: in their eyes the same song. These people quickly find each other, understand at a glance and quickly realize their desire. Just about any romance, any kind of emotional outburst here and there can be no discussion.
Oksana B.: "I'm actually a girl who's quite good, but once I arrived at the resort, decided that the novel needed. In the end, it is necessary to spend a pack of condoms that I bought. Came with a friend in a bar, drank a bottle of champagne. Then another one ordered. We noticed the men at the next table, invited.
Girlfriend went to dance with one of them, and I had an uncomfortable shoes, and I was left with the other. "Come to you", he said. I considered myself a progressive girl, not condemning sex for one night. But it was disgusting, stupid, like the mating of two animals. After this episode we sobered up, to tell us was about. I was ashamed, disgusted, disgusting. No, sex without feelings is still unpleasant".
But "sex with feelings" can leave a bad impression if you treat resort novel too seriously. The fact that intimacy (especially brought great pleasure) on a subconscious level binds a woman to partner, and to break these invisible thread is not so easy. Returning after a passionate southern novel in grey monotonous routine often leads to the real depression.
To avoid this, more often remind myself that most likely, this happiness has a time limit. Do not take too seriously the promises of his new friend to divorce his wife to marry you and take you into the magical land. If this happens, let it be for you a pleasant surprise.
Cons resort novel
1. According to the survey, 90% of women hope that a holiday romance turn into something serious. If you will not be able to relate easily to his adventure in the South, waiting for letters and calls from new lover will transform your life in sheer vexation, which will inevitably end in despair.
2. Love sometimes completely disables the mind. And then you run the risk of returning home pregnant or with some bad disease. Still, try not to lose your head, and if a man refuses to use a condom, just say goodbye to him.
3. You can run on the professional seducer, which will bring on you the whole set of methods of courtship, and then disappear, taking your wallet, plastic card and jewels.
4. Adventure at the resort can ruin the relationship with her husband - if he finds out about this and will not be able to forgive.
5. Holiday romance can turn into a drug. The fact that the first stage of love, the body produces phenethylamine, which causes the reaction of excitation, similar narcotic intoxication. Previously, it was limited to men and some women live from one resort of the novel to another.
Sex 1 night: 10 reasons
Author:
Fedorov I.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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