Let men argue about the existence of female friendship, we know: in addition to true friends there are many variations of them. With some it is possible to live soul to soul, with others it is better to meet on holidays, with the third to compete wit. Probably, each of us is surrounded by a lot of pseudopodium, and the ability to distinguish between them - quite decent female science. Pokazatelniya
These girls are still noticeable in school - like best friends, like twins. Is one to paint his hair red, as after a couple of days red will have two. Is one to turn a dream to go to Paris, how to pack your bags and start the second. As a rule, both like the same men, most often the same, but because this friendship ends a little too predictable.
What lies behind the imitation? Hidden admiration, mixed with the same latent hostility. Between sets, "you have beautiful hair" and "you have beautiful hair, I want the same" - a gap in which mixed and envy, and selfishness, and an inferiority complex. Safely continue the communication, if you are able to get pleasure from such an unequivocal recognition of its popularity, which, unlike a friendship, very real.
Zavistnitsa
As a child she was a friend because you have toys beautiful. In the University because they do not skimp on the gifts. Probably every successful woman in the asset pair of friends zavistic with a very bizarre behaviour. On the one hand, they are struggling to cause guilt - "there is no justice in the world: someone everything, and someone is nothing, on the other hand, widely used by your attention.
For example, among my friends there are two, one of which demand the interpreter to travel around the world, the other is a single mother with two daughters and a million complaints to the world. Translator from each trip with a guilty air, brings her children expensive gifts, a friend graciously accepts without tiring to read unjust universe. In such friendship is not even the slightest of advantages, solid game with only one goal and unnecessary guilt.
Opponent
You for her challenging fate. Your success is the incentive to move forward. Your failure is the opportunity to assess their own victory. A friend of competitive spirit as the militant Athens. Learn it easily: she is ready for anything to surpass all your achievements, ranging from career and to your family. Just from childhood she used to build the life of someone else's guidelines, and to surpass his friends it is much easier than to go on their own way.
If you both get satisfaction from this rivalry is a very productive way, then hold each other until the end of days, and both will come to the desired goals. I know a couple friends who at first fiercely clung to career heights with an eye on the opponent. Then both with a clear conscience switched to the status of Housewives and ready to sacrifice their own lives to family nest was more comfortable than his beloved girlfriend. Doubtful, but still fun.
Suitable status
You may appear in a photo shoot for a glossy article "the Perfect girlfriend". You are a successful, beautiful, surrounded by male attention. Most likely neighbors on the career ladder. Often colleagues. You have nothing to share, because each of you fate has brought a lot of gifts. You explore a couple of the best spas in the city, and on vacation leave on a tour of the Amsterdam dance, but most importantly, you still have something to discuss over a Cup of coffee.
Such a beautiful friendship, but sometimes has only one drawback: it starts exactly with the purchase of a high position in society and ends with his loss. In fact this is another attribute of a beautiful life from the many others like him, but because he himself is - alas! - no value no.
Tom Jerry
She just unbearable. Invents barbs with admirable eloquence and will not miss the occasion to trip up. You are also not inferior, because revenge is a matter of honor, and now, despite reasonable promise and words never to say to this person, again trying to enter a familiar room. In the virtual memory of folk art already have a name for your friendship - "sworn friend", the best friend and worst enemy all in one.
About the same deal the most famous worst friends - Tom and Jerry, and their Russian brothers, the wolf and the Hare, "Well, wait! " Sworn friends beat each other men and positions, hone your wits, and after another friendly match up with ingenious plans of revenge. They can't stand each other, but at the same time cannot leave, otherwise you will be bored. In the end, the bitter friend always keeps in tone, and cat and mouse is indeed an interesting game.
Beauty and her shadow
I remember the boys wondered why the most beautiful girl in the class like " this gray mouse, pale dumb creature? Not understand the far-sighted men of female logic - grey all colours become brighter.
And that's the beauty surrounds himself with a retinue of ugly girlfriends. In addition to a good environment, it gets more and faithful helpers, and ready to endure ridicule, and listen to the epic stories of her rich life. The mechanism is simple: I have the honor to be friends with such a beautiful and popular special, its attention should be cherished. On the one hand, life in the entourage is living in someone's shadow, on the other unclaimed expression tends to fade, and every year, "gray mouse" becoming bessvatnet.
Senior fellow-Advisor
Most likely, she's a bit older than you and most of all loves to give advice from the height of his life experience. As a rule, this is why we are such friends initially and appreciate, but over time, these tips begin to spontaneously spread to all areas of life. "Why do you need such a bright belt, you have no waist". "Honey, you're too poorly know men, he like you, a dozen". It might really be more experienced, more Mature, more successful, but her life experience, in any case, only the experience of one single person.
The whiner
She again disaster struck. The day was a non-starter, fried stew, at work every day, waiting for dismissal, and the spouse with suspicious regularity manages to please all traffic jams in the city and returned home after midnight. This report begins almost every morning. Life definitely it is not every day demonstrates his dislike.
Friend does not expect help or advice, she just wants to complain and then updated, taking on your shoulders the whole burden of his cruel world, to get to work. You only need extensive vest, but attempts to help or harmless "okay, everything is not so bad, on the contrary, will find quite fierce resistance.
If you have the same habit, that your friendship is almost perfect - alternate complaints about life quite able to strengthen. Otherwise, don't waste time and energy - this advice is universal for any type of pseudopodium.
Author:
Pechorin D.
Source:
Леди@mail.ru
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