While the hero of our dreams is beautiful, courageous, intelligent, witty and most likely rich. We reward their idol of all possible virtues, not caring much whether it's some relation to reality.
Alas, the stars, living in constant tension, tired of performances and filming, and sometimes under the influence of stimulants, not always nice people (to confuse the actor with roles that he plays, big mistake! ), and special feats in bed because of their lifestyle they do not.
So why do we need sex with them?
Young-green
Despite the fantasies of adults ladies, most fans of the stars still be young girls or teenagers. They dream about kissing and sex with their idol, and the most daring and think about the possibility of having his child.
What are the causes of our dreams about the stars?
Young girls when dealing with stars work most of the effect of the ego: it is important not actually a star (let it not deceive ourselves! ), and even our relationships, and ourselves.
Yesterday a young lady was unknown, unremarkable and not different from the millions of their contemporaries from the girl, and suddenly - suddenly! - close to the star, became famous. Now it will speak, and the less fortunate classmate or a course-mates, of course, would be for her to be jealous. To consider all these desires need, first of all, from the point of view of developmental psychology.
In adults we understand that you can stand out from the crowd and the other, more worthy way - becoming, for example, the best in the business in his youth because of lack of knowledge and experience looking for easy ways. And the issue in this case does not necessarily talking about sex. Sometimes a girl wants just chat with a famous person. And, it is quite possible that next time she will not want all stars equally clever and interesting.
Fans and admirers
In fact, to experience the warm feelings of admiration or worship to any singer or actor, there is nothing shameful or abnormal no, people have always been inclined to pay tribute to the outstanding talent Opera singer, musician, actor, writer, or artist.
Pathology begins when this hobby interferes with a person to live and work. And in this respect between the fans and the fans - a huge gap. The main interest of everyone to his idol lies its attractiveness as a person. Otherwise why would we spend efforts, time and money to hang on the wall posters, watch videos, buy CDs and books devoted to the star.
But fans are traditionally considered to be - and are - more sane and less Intrusive.
Yes, the fan can buy a ticket for a performance or a concert of his idol, can bring him flowers and give them during the bow, it may even wait around backstage to look at it closer. But she, unlike female fans along the way can still do a lot of things to think about a new project at work, call my mom, not to worry, and to decide whether she will have time tomorrow morning to run to the hairdresser.
A fan of anything other than their beloved stars, think it may be fixated on it. Whatever she did, she does everything mechanically, because her thoughts are quite different.
In the workplace such employee senseless, and personal life, he is unlikely to suit him just not up to it.
Nature abhors a vacuum chance to become fans first and foremost by those whose life is a space - not interested in learning, not comfortable, not a life partner As we all know, nature abhors a vacuum: the chance to become fans first and foremost by those whose life is a space - not interested in learning, not comfortable, not a life partner. The "hole" in the mind and fills the image, more precisely, fantasies about him - from his outstanding qualities in life and to not less than the outstanding qualities in bed.
Fedot, but not the
What to do if someone in your family suffers from fanaticism? First of all, you need to try to explain to the fan or the fan that they invented the image often has nothing to do with the real personality of a star. And in the life of an idol could be no worse, just he one hundred percent will be different. Because of the actor is judged by his roles as artist - in songs, but it's their work, not more. And it is precisely to try out the other - others - faces. Without this skill as artists would be worthless.
Well, that life and consciousness are not any gaps, he needs to do arrangement of your own life and stop wasting time and energy on someone else's. One has only to live in the here and now, as people will understand that events in his own reality can be much more interesting and unexpected than any, even the most courageous imaginations.
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