Interpersonal relationships - the real battlefield. Liked person have to win, to withdraw, to seduce, to hold. For this there are hundreds of strategies and tactics about this shoot series and talk shows. The skills of effective aggressive operations clearly teach glossy magazines. In this world, in which men are from Mars and women from Venus, anything can happen. After all, where else but on the battlefield, you may receive such a thing as a pickup? Men's pick-up: take it and use it
Pikaper (from the English slang pick up is a person who specializes in Dating with women in public places. Pickup - whether science, or ideology that teaches young men to seduce women with the maximum ease and in the shortest possible time. For years of existence of a pickup truck almost every coach, skilled in letters, contributed to the development of this science, resulting theory may already be a library Department.
The purpose of the male pickup - achievement of sexual relations in the shortest possible time and with minimum costs. Any communication implies a logical continuation, and this sequel is not a leisurely walk along the promenade in the jets of the first spring rain. Girl, you need to calculate, evaluate (pikaper ladies appreciate on a ten-point scale) and deftly coaxing for sex today (ideally) or within a few visits. After the fact need to make a progress report and to publish it in the appropriate forum. The philosophy of this lifestyle quickly and without unnecessary verbosity formulated in the title of his book, Vis Vitalis: "Woman. Take it and use it".
Apparently, the man in the framework of the "science" of pickup are considered to be fragments of the body, concentrated on several functions, namely: to catch, to use, to tell others about it. In this world there are no women, there is a partner for rapport (rapport - contact, establishing relationships), there is no interest, there are NLP, no embarrassment and awkwardness, there TRR (Typical Frustrirovannyh Loser who is afraid to meet and seduce). There is no love, of course, and I'm embarrassed to mention this outdated term from the vocabulary TFN. The life of such a being is a brief moment between erection and ejaculation, and to live it to the forum all observedvalues.
Neil Strauss, author of the book The Game considers the majority of picadero "social robots". He writes that among his friends pycairo no one can boast current personal life. Relationships do not last more than one night, while searching for a new partner becomes a priority: "as soon As they enter into the society of women, even if it occurs during a lunch at lunchtime, they suddenly feel a strange rush of adrenaline and desire "popolarity". Relationships with women are no longer commonplace, they become special situations, during which pikaper can raise self-esteem. Your self-esteem is constantly dependent on women's reactions". If Freud found the phenomenon of the pickup, his theory was supplemented would plump Tom with description of a new pathology.
Actually pikaper is a godsend for psychologists. In his inner world has it all: a sense of inferiority, which requires every day to prove to others their importance, self-centeredness, all possible communication difficulties, painful competition with other males, the assertion with sex, the substitution of true success surrogate and much more.
Men, confident in yourself, there is neither the time nor the desire to aimless knowingly eat first ladies, with subsequent "use". Hence the main difference between men Mature from the eternal teenager-pikaper first interested in quality, and the second number. The difference between them as between the Eiffel tower and its copy, installed at Disneyland.
Female pickup: intricate path Registrar
Pikaper-men very often claim that women pickup does not exist. First, because the relationship solely for the sake of sex is not a fit female psychology. The exception is nymphomania, but it is a disease. Secondly, because in the process of evolution hunting (no matter mammoths or Mature individuals) was the prerogative of men, women for centuries were quite different functions and, as a consequence, other instincts.
Women's purposeful seduction for other purposes, but their actions also have the technique, the impact on the male ego and unhealthy-cynical approach to interpersonal relationships. Hence this phenomenon, albeit with reservations, you can call pickup. In spite of the pickup theorists defending its toy science.
Indeed, a woman on the trail hunting has other goals. Moreover, women's purpose is much more serious and insidious, and therefore the huntress is a hundred times more dangerous than any of the boys decided to play macho.
The purpose of the first. Material goods. For their achievements women have proven weapon - Dynamo. Perfect technique is needed to properly "spin" on these very good, from time to time to hide your true interest, and then - most importantly! - to escape unnoticed. For the first time about a female Dynamo I heard in childhood from one friend of my grandmother. During the war she worked in Siberia in a munitions factory, and she had no money to go home. She arrived on station, have Karamanlis, met a soldier decently, joked, laughed, took polkitically, soldiers bought her ticket, and the promise of escape "for ice cream", successfully gone from his life. Out of desperation, whether, from the audacity does include Dynamo, the essence remains the same.
The second goal. Cruel revenge of the male half of humanity. And this is the sign of a real predator with completely broken psyche. Not worth it to hurt women, they can turn into vindictive fury, which you light will sivut, and then will suit on this occasion party. As a rule, to take revenge on women start after injury, sexual violence, and the magnitude of revenge does not limit even common sense.
At least flirt with the aim to catch, to fall, to throw and to posledstvijami. The maximum sophisticated strategy of destroying someone else's life. Like monstrous as it may seem, but the desire for revenge is a natural reaction to betrayal. One of my friends in the very beginning of a relationship harmless tone warns the men: "If you do hurt me, I will break you all my life". Do not underestimate womens honesty.
The purpose of the third. The hype surrounding his person with a hidden ultimate goal of a profitable marriage. Read any book from the series "how to become a bitch". The authors propose to twist novels left and right, wholesale to conquer men, and, if desired, to ruin the family nest with a single purpose: to find, in the end, the most worthy to live with him happily ever after and die in one day. Female psychology incorrigible; whatever the cause we were discharged on the way, we all go to the same purpose.
Equipment pickup
Techniques of the pickup there is a great variety, no wonder I mentioned the library Department. Here and NLP, and memorization of compliments, and hundreds of ways to make your acquaintance in any situation. Here are just some of them:
- Routine - little stories, anecdotes, stories that translate the conversation in a certain direction - in an intimate, of course.
- Transmittance. On a first date - just have a good time, on the second to demonstrate itself as an excellent sexual partner, on the third explicitly allude to sex, after - in fact, sex.
- BFD (Boyfriend destroyer) - NLP technique that destroys the interest of the girl to her boyfriend and transferring it to pikaper.
- Known today-contact - prolonged, "mesmerizing" the look in his eyes. In practice, looks very scary.
Field test trial of a new pickup technique in the greatest possible number of women of different social status and age, before I share this technique with others.
- Freez out of total ignorance, designed to hurt women's feelings. Applies in the case of intractable girl.
- Quick date - withdrawal just met the girl of one situation and placing it in another (for example, with the dance floor in a quiet bar).
And finally, the Council of young pikaper from the vis Vitalis: "If you see that contact does not work - just go on. Can not even say goodbye". Such etiquette.
Methods of female truck - all the same flirtation, in which, depending on the situation, mixed with a certain amount of sexuality. Boys in front of the mirror master "known today-contact", the girls from childhood can shoot the eyes. Boys invent Freez out, girls have long known: in order Vakula got red Slippers, it stubbornly ignore. In women, the range of techniques is not less than that experienced pycairo from stroking the stem of his glass to killer manners Sharon stone throwing one leg over the other. In war as in war without weapons (including mass destruction), is not necessary.
To leave the battlefield
Fortunately, the man representing the protein molecule with the beginnings of the mind, and the woman shooting the eyes right and left, Yes, all the more purses, exist only on the pages of literature. Pikaper both sexes sooner or later grow up and, throwing off the mask of self-confidence, find that inner world of man slightly wider and deeper than they were seen through the primitive technology of seduction.
The ranks of pycairo updated every day, someone comes with eyes a burning and a dream to become the coolest guy in the area, someone leaves, deciding to change the strategy of behavior on more human. Because there are men, there are women and there are bipedal with a simple set of instincts. And last - the intermediate phase between a teenager and an adult, which sometimes get lost in the personal search of the travelers.
They do not realize that the relationship is not a battleground, not the communication of the two aliens. Bad experience counts for defeat, artful seduction - for victory, revenge for revenge. For that fight: for happiness or another attempt of self-affirmation? And trust to tell us their truth? Fortunately, immature beliefs imposed from outside, with the experience of becoming obsolete. And the ideology of the pickup will leave it to the creators - they, unlike the boys, get her a real favor. In the form of fees for the sale of the multi-volume issues and training for naive TFN.
Author:
Pechorin D.
Source:
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