6 tips for a harmonious remarriage

If not immediately, albeit at the second attempt, but you have found the man with whom you would like to age. It is important not to repeat the mistakes of the previous relationship.


For some reason, even stumbling once, a woman, in love again, firmly believes that he is a real Prince charming, a knight without fear and reproach. And then, sheaves in one apartment, it turns out that he scatters his socks, trusit before neighbor alcoholica and does not know how to iron shirts.




1. Not idealizing partner




Accept the fact that the disadvantages of each. Make a list of those qualities that are important to you in person. Your partner has them? Well, its weaknesses should be treated leniently. If you irritate a long sitting on the toilet or something favorite pulls herself with a blanket while you sleep, don't be silent, grit your teeth. Tell him about it, but not menacing tone dictator - tell me what you disliked this behavior, ask him to consider your opinion.





2. Progovarival problems


He came late and did not even call that delayed? Roughly answered your innocent question? Not acquainted with your colleagues? Definitely tell him that you care about in a relationship. He also only gets used to live with you under one roof, it is important to understand your expectations.




3. Analyze the causes of conflict in the previous marriage




Of course, it was better to do it before you jumped into a new love. But it's not too late to catch up! Think: what are you made mistakes in the previous marriage? How would you acted now in similar circumstances?






4. Not abstral relations with his relatives




Even if you are not very nice to sit at the same table with his dad or listen to eternal lamentations of his mother to take his family with respect. You don't have to rush to him on the neck and priznavatsa in love, but to build a smooth relationship. Remember: perhaps it is your war with the previous mother-in-law and destroyed your





5. Ignore the opinion of friends


They seem strange habits or too modest salary? It's their own business! If Velas statistics, how many marriages destroyed these "girlfriends", we would have horrified!




6. Let go of the past




Do not compare her second husband with the first and certainly not expect that he will end up in the same rat. You start life with a clean slate with a different person. And only the two of you depends on whether you will be happy in marriage!

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