Don't let him such a strange action to return you to the original position. These things have to stop, don't let nothing stand in your way to perfection.
Smiled. You met her in a cafe, and he looked at you just as before.
Dropped in for a visit. The doorbell. You're wrapped in a towel and cloth cap on his head, because he dyed hair, go to open the door. And what? Your former himself. Just stopping by to say Hello.
Calls in the middle of the night drunk as an umbrella. A dream you think that the alarm is ringing, but no, it's the phone. You pick up the phone, thinking that the best friend something happened. And hear his drunken voice.
Says strange things. E-mail comes a letter from a good friend. Which says: "Just met him. He says he really misses you".
Sends a birthday card signed "love". Did your parents forget to congratulate you, and the card arrives on time and is adorned crooked heart, which he himself drew.
Don't try to understand what it all means, you have something to do without it. In addition, it is useless to get that shorted out in the head of Remora. It is quite possible that he does not understand that his behavior is ambiguous. He may think that just comes gallantly. But even if he knows how to treat his actions, it is meaningless to ask a painful question: "Why? " Maybe if you're making phone calls on the film and will roll backwards, you will hear: "I worship Satan", as in a bad horror movie. So don't waste your time. He already proved that he's just a weed in your flowers life. You will feel better when you pull it from the root, crush and discard in the trash heap.
It is better to stop his strange behavior in one of the following ways:
- Ask some friend of a young person to record the velvet voice message on your answering machine.
- Buy two mugs. One must be written in your name, and the second is "pig". When he looks in the guests, pour him a Cup of coffee in a dirty Cup.
- Make the cactus phallic sculpture. This is done as follows: put two round cactus on each side very long. When your ex will come to visit, say you just cut the cacti. With these words take the knife a little more and cut the top of the long cactus. In fact, cacti do not cut, but he still doesn't know.
- When will smile and tell him that his teeth stuck something green.
- Teach friends how to respond to his ranting about you: "Well, I don't know... When I last talked to her, she didn't mention you."
After a breakup and it is so hard to recover, but will become even harder if stuck will be confusing, making all sorts of controversial things. Tell him that he must immediately cease all ambiguous maneuvers, and close to his nose door. Forever. And try to pinch his fingers.
Complicated cases
With sticks and without that it is difficult to cope, but sometimes it is complicated and other factors. For example, he's married, he's your boss, you rent an apartment together, etc. In this case you will have to overcome some additional obstacles before shutting the door to the past. But remember that additional difficulties should not interfere with your recovery. Your task is to think what kind of difficulties linked to your situation, and quickly decide how to handle them.
The book Alison James, "what a pity that you're finally going! "
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