10 ways to combat sexual boredom

To your sexual relationship did not lose freshness and remained on the height for many years, maybe even decades, newspaper the Sun offers 10 treatment of sexual boredom.


Make love in the most important part of your life




Many couples believe that love should be one of the most important parts of life, but still devote to sex only 20 minutes after a hard working day. Learn also take responsibility for the role of sexual partner as to the role of employee, parent, or friend. Specifically, define the time for making love, when you have the strength and spirit.





If you quarrel about how often you have sex, look for a compromise


Such conflicts often lead to a deadlock: one partner will always assume that it is forced to have sex and will want it less and less. While the other will feel rejected, wanting intimate relationships more and more.




Put the question on open discussion and come to a common conclusion. If one partner wants to have sex 4 times a week, and the other only once, then they may agree to make love twice. In the night "without sex" you can just kiss and cuddle.





Separate sex from the rest of the


None of the relationships are not without quarrels and conflicts. Women especially can't make love if they are "fed up" with their partner or something else. Over, you can not, moreover, are not obliged to make love in irritation, but try to have a quarrel not have created around your sexual relationship a vicious cycle of retaliation and abandonment.





Take the short trip


At least once a year go to some pleasant place to spend as much time as possible with your legal partner, having fun and having sex. Do not think that you will spend all this time in bed. For intimacy between spouses is also very important to share with each other their feelings, hopes, fears.





Resume game dates


Remember how you were Dating before becoming an official couple.




Go to some nice place, hang out, spend the evening, following all the rituals as if you want to fall in love with each other again. Or, say, agree with your partner that you will devote every Wednesday evening leisurely conversation over a glass of wine and a joint view movies.




Sex is not required after such evenings - but you will have a good chance to imagine it.




Do something unexpected




If you suddenly find that early in the morning you are both free from work and the house is provided to you, make each other an unusual gift - for example, sex in the daylight.





Learn to make each other a massage


Skilled full body massage will bring both partners great physical pleasure and relaxation. You do not have to make love immediately after a massage, however, if you do so, the sex will be fantastic.





Change the environment


If you always make love in the good old "duospace", we can think about the joy of sex on the sofa, or even on the floor of the living room. If you have problems in order to be alone, go in the backseat. The spicy is just overcoming all sorts of inconveniences.





Adopt a joint shower


If you do not want, can not be washed together. However, you will become closer, even if one of the partners will take a shower and the other just to sit and talk with him. In addition, a simple friendly gesture in the form of scratching backs will make your relationship considerably more trusting.





Find all issues with a nasty habit


Some husbands and wives have absolutely asexual habits and quality. So, fetid breath, greasy hair, dirty underwear - all this may cause the partner avoid sex with you. It is best to be honest but gentle. The silence of the problem may be even more corrupt than its open discussion

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