How to make a compliment?!

There is nothing better than to get warm friendly compliment in the morning. Instead of waiting, when you make a compliment, make it yourself. The following tips will tell you how to make compliments:


Make specific compliments




"For You today, these beautiful beads! " sounds much better than "You look good today". The more specific the compliment, the better. People will say that you pay attention to them.




Reinforce the compliment




Do not stop On You today, these beautiful beads". Your compliment will be more if you continue "so They bring out Your eyes".




Ask a question compliment




If you want to start a conversation with a compliment, will continue his question: "today, You are so beautiful beads, they emphasize Your eyes. You just bought? " 4. Be honest




There is nothing worse than an insincere compliment. For him people will notice flattery, which will lower you in the eyes. Better refrain from a compliment, if you have nothing to say, than say something that you don't believe it.





Do not get carried away


Of course, it's always nice to call a friendly smile on the face of the interlocutor. But if you will say too many compliments, you will look Intrusive or worse, suspicious. In addition, do not let people get used to the fact that they constantly make compliments, and they will cease to cherish them and will take it for granted. Especially be careful at work. If the team is supported by formal atmosphere, most likely your compliment will not. Why when you make compliments raised your self-esteem




First, to see something good and new in the other person, and more so, to say it to him, need confidence. First to say compliments may seem quite difficult. You may have the feeling that you somehow hurt the man, or he could have misunderstood.




But soon you will notice that indeed a sincere compliment is always lifts the mood of the person and gives him confidence in himself. There will always be someone who will say darkly, "Nothing", or even begin to argue with you. Well, that's their problem. A compliment is a gift - even if you don't, it will remain with you. Accept the compliments you as a gift - thank you.




Secondly, when you start to notice more good in other people, you will discover in yourself too much good. So the more compliments you make, the higher your self-esteem.

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