Mom, dad, I am happy family
First, note that to make the evening a family vacation only with the whole family. Otherwise someone would be skeptical to watch others carefully cut out appliques for Darts, and collectivism and mutual pleasure - they will not get either working for the benefit of new games, no tiresome critic in front of the TV. If something is worth doing is worth doing together, or watch a new Comedy, or in unison to build a ship bed in the nursery.
Secondly, the parents, do not forget that your desires and interests do not always coincide with the wishes of your children. They are always waiting for the mass of new impressions every day, then you know family night as a warm bath with relaxing music and "lying in bed".
Recent surveys of school-aged children have shown that children from 7 to 17 years old I love video games, trips to the cinema or watching a film at home, and with less enthusiasm for technological creativity. Young parents prefer to go to the theater together to bring some culinary recipe. If converge parents and children in a single and indivisible mind about hanging out in the evening family vacation, it applies to computer games (according to statistics, 50% of the total number of families). In second place on the compatibility of interests is sport. All love him.
What should be a family night
But even if you don't like sports, and the computer is only use for business purposes, it is not necessary to associate family night with the TV. Says a friend, "TV is not funny or ridiculous wrong." According to her, the plan specifically and script family evenings is not necessary, as the impromptu best: "What could be better than running after work in the evening together with her husband and children? And in winter, Hiking in the sauna or the pool with inflatable toys, shopping and home production cocktails... When tiring serious work at home need to get a supply of fun, laughter and childhood. Why would imagine it does not allow, especially in the house have children? I have them a little time, but the quality of it a hundred times more important than quantity! "
Another friend of mine, on the contrary, is very kind to family traditions and loves to introduce new ones. For example, on Tuesdays, it is definitely baking a cake (each time different) and happy family evening tea with chess (though there whole family loves this game). But chess is perfectly possible to replace the crossword puzzles, backgammon, puzzles, table tennis. In any family there is a "trick", planned or not, but the pleasure is assured.
Another important detail of the organization of the evening family friendly initiative. This is the most difficult item in the entire training. Sometimes it is so difficult to overcome fatigue and a desire to meet with the couch!" To force myself not necessary, and relax because you can and actively. Even harder to convince his mate that little bit of play and laughter of children absolutely will not tire his clever head.
Family family strife
You have your own family, his rest, especially jokes and games. Just don't forget about it on a weekday or holiday. For some unusual days calendar at home you can always arrange this Evening of family fun with a capital letter. And for this you need only a good mood, a little imagination and the desire to please the family. To turn the kitchen into a mini-café with a bartender, waiters and visitors, to arrange a poetry evening in search of rhymes or music in search of a common favorite songs. To reverse the roles of children-parents for the evening, to arrange contests on sharpness with prizes and candy, to compose a tale about family, grandparents, linking with reality and a family album, to write together scenario family evening in honor of the birthday of father or dad. Everything must be both helpful and pleasant: we develop and nurture their children in the game, getting a pleasure from it
Speaking of scenarios, family nights: do not invent knows what. Your children love to draw? Let them prepare a colored poster with a portrait of the Pope, adornment gifts and premises. Read poems and sing? Hence, contests, singing, jokes, and poems should be mandatory. You can lead to do not just mom or older sister, and Carlson or the old lady Shapoklyak and each. Think of game movement. For example, to depict the famous picture ("Mona Lisa", "the Rooks have arrived", "two Again! "), to simulate swim pirates treasure (i.e. cake).
Chinese proverb says: "a Man is happy when he is happy to go to work in the morning and in the evening, happy to go home." Live with a smile, your children will appreciate it, learn to understand his family and will recall their childhood.
Author:
That Is, Kudinov
Source:
mamashkam.ru
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