But not knowing the reason, you cannot achieve a good result. What could be the reason for men not to want sex? Just say: this list is not so small!
I also want to say that this list is not taken from the ceiling. It was suggested by a remarkable sexologist and author of numerous books on exotropia Barbara Kisling.
Medical and physiological reasons why a man may not want sex
Sometimes every man there are periods in life when the interest in sex is minimal. Libido is falling, the excitation comes later than usual or does not occur at all. Why this might happen?
Decreased testosterone levels.
This rarely happens with young men, but after 35 years, this is a serious problem!
He has a medical condition.
Diabetes, anemia, hypertension, heart problems, even the common cold or the flu can cause problems with sexual desire! In this case it is necessary to address to the doctor.
His depression. Problems at work or in the family (death of a loved one, financial ruin, and so on) can lead to depression, but even the man may not be aware of what was happening to him! A man loses interest in everything - and of course, to sex, too.
He takes medication that affect libido. A list of medications that affect the potency, is huge. The most famous of them are prozac, zoloft and paxil. In this case it is better to consult a doctor in our time, a variety of medicines it is easy to find a replacement, not damaging potency.
Worry and anxiety. Sometimes a man so worried because of problems at work, it blocks all other feelings.
Problems with drugs and alcohol. Yes, if men, on the potency of which drugs and alcohol are absolutely not affected, but they are rare.
He's asexual. Scientists estimate that about 1, 5% of the total population are asexual. Yes, there are some men who want a relationship and love, but don't want sex. Usually they are easy to crack.
Relationship problems, because of which the man does not want sex
Men are very sensitive creatures. Do you really think that the problems in personal relationships does not affect sexual?!
He feels unhappy in the relationship. If you have a relationship difficult period, if a man is angry with you, then it's foolish to think that quarrels able to ignite passion. Rather, Vice versa.
Intimate relationship with you, he got bored. Usually boredom in sex does not prevent the man to do it. However, in combination with other reasons (for example, reduced levels of testosterone) sex is for men are much less important than, for example, a game of his favorite team at a football match.
It is lazy to have sex. Some men just get out of sex, because they rarely do. All they need is a release-Masturbation once a week. Usually in pairs there is an unspoken agreement to avoid sex, but the relationship between partners is excellent.
Psychological setup, because of which the man does not want sex
If in the previous cases the man does not want sex unconscious, then he
consciously avoids. Sometimes abstaining from sex happens immediately, from the beginning of the relationship, sometimes after a long relationship. Let's see what the man can be a reason.
He had another (or others). Yes, whatever it may be trite, there are men who can't sleep with two women at the same time. Although most still able to all women to combine.
It excites quite another. Men can be quite certain sexual proclivities, which, however, do not prevent to develop personal relationships. For example, a man can experience the excitement at the sight of the only women of a certain type (and love you). Was the story where the woman after many years of marriage, she knew that her husband visits a bdsm club 3 times a week. Sex they didn't have a few years.
He is gay. Do not think that you can immediately determine whether gay your partner. Many gay men want to be like all, having a family, make children and even willing to tolerate regular sex for the sake of it. There are cases when sex stops after the birth of children. And the truth is found out later, when the psyche of the women are already pretty loose.
He is not confident in his sexual abilities. Usually it occurs or with young boys, or men over the age of 45.
He realized that he had an STD. Like, you don't know what an STD is? Definitely Google this! Usually this happens if you just met, or if your partner has a relationship on the side.
He is in love with another. There is a woman from the past, which a man can not forget. However, you he likes me, and he hopes that he will soon forget his old love. Until then, only kisses and hugs.
He kept sexually. The past or the views of men such that keep his sexuality, and change he wants nothing, even for you :( Usually these men are trying to give us to understand it, openly or secretly. For example, a 35-year-old man who had never had sex - "swing" in this area it's very hard!
He decided to punish you. The man realized that sex is very important for you and decided you thus to teach. Here's the scoundrel!
It gets more porn than a real relationship. Yes, it happens even in the beginning of a relationship, and with the progress of Internet, this reason is more and more frequent. Moreover, many men believe that it is absolutely normal!
He took a vow of celibacy. Completely incomprehensible for many of us the reason. However, some men refuse sex, choosing such a spiritual path.
He avoids strong relationships. Head men sex, and serious relationships are closely linked, so many men simply avoid sex for fear of development of relations.
Serious mental problems that affect the desire for sex
Naturally, the following things are treated only with a psychotherapist. By themselves, they pass not.
Complex "Madonna/prostitute". It's pretty ancient complex, but he's still alive! The bottom line is that women man divides into 2 categories - "good" (for marriage) and "bad" (for sex). And sex and marriage for them incompatible! Moreover, it does not matter what you really are. Everything happens in his mind, and only there.
He is terrified of sex. Fear of sex, or sexual averse is when a man is afraid of everything connected with sex, or has a specific phobia, such as fear of a Blowjob. Usually with the threat of sex symptoms of phobia is obvious: the heart beats often, diarrhea, nausea, sweat stands out.
He constantly masturbating. Masturbation is good, but not the same price! The man is before many to masturbate that earn autoerotism - attraction to itself. In this case, women in bed simply has no place.
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