No one enters into a relationship with the idea that in a few years you will have sex to happen as often as a lunar Eclipse, and even close will not be as enchanting as it is now. However, for various reasons, some individual nights you with great pleasure watching the UPS and downs of the series on TV than tear each other's clothes. Of course, in the sexual life of every couple has their UPS and downs, but the constant and steady sunset is not necessarily inevitable. Read some tips about what you should never do with your man, and perhaps it will help you to save your sexual life. Not ispravlaite their physiological needs in the presence of his beloved
You never felt so comfortable with a man in my life. Superbly. But alone the fact that you can leave the bathroom door open when shave their armpits or write, doesn't mean you should do it. Of course, there are couples who feel well, coping with certain physiological needs in the presence of each other, but it should be done wisely, and not carelessly. Negligence is too ordinary, in doing so, you act like brother and sister. This course is very intimate, but certainly not sexy. This means that if you popped a pimple on the back, it is better to go with this problem to my dermatologist, and not to ask her man to squeeze. This intimacy has nothing to do with sexuality and gelendost.
Don't make your bed in the zoo for plush animals
If a place of honor on your pillow is plush Teddy bear, so you claim that your bed is a place for gentle onnimanni, and not for the ardent passion. And your boudoir, decorated Rostami and bows may not be cause none of you desire to act. It is like the statement "I am an immature little girl and so I'm not sexy".
This does not mean that your bedroom should be from the floor to the ceiling is decorated in predatory sexual style with leopard prints, but it should be something that would be suggested sexual thoughts and create a sensual atmosphere. At least it should be a bed that would make him desire you to lay. The above in no case does not mean that your bedroom should be devoid of femininity, but that femininity should be sexual.
Do not leave the TV
You are lying in bed, only you, he and Mr. TV. What's wrong? Nothing except that this is not conducive to sex. Joint viewing of films is the action you perform side by side, but not face to face, and you are more in tuned to the wave of the main character of the series, than the guy beside you. A study of Italian psychologists, found that families who watch TV in the bedroom, have sex twice as often than those who are not looking. Energy inputs of external life in your personal world distracts you from feeling intimacy with your partner. Our sex life is held hostage in everything that happens around work, kids etc, so its closeness and its intimate world you must be careful to protect.
Do not use sex as a means of obtaining material benefits
Many women use sex to cheer up her boyfriend before goroshit his news that spent a fortune on a new handbag, or do not agree to sex if he buys them a new dishwasher. It is absolutely harmful approach.
When sex happens only at your own discretion, it is aware of the power imbalance in your relationship, which ultimately can lead to hostility, resentment and discontent. Moreover, when you take on the role of the controller of sex, you are too focused on punishment or encouragement of your partner, rather than focus on his pleasure. Sex is also used to bring pleasure to both, rather than to serve someone.
Of course, hardly anyone of us will openly say: "No sex until you pass the trash", but on the mood of discontent that did not make partner, undoubtedly reflected. When this happens from time to time, then you are already not up to sex, the more you want to get your man to do something or to punish him for what he did not. Of course, it is much easier to experience the desire to have sex with a man who washed the dishes, took out the garbage and vacuuming the carpet, but the punishment of the denial of anything, be it sex, a word or a caress is wrong. Leave your baggage of negative emotions before the bedroom door and discuss them later. Moreover, after fantastic sex your man most likely he will want to please and do what you unsuccessfully tried to force him to do.
Don't feign orgasm
He's a good hour spent straining his back and other parts of the body and..... nothing. Are you tired. You are in a stressful condition. It's not his fault. But to simulate orgasm dishonest. Moreover, it increases the gap between the partners. If you pretend orgasm to protect his ego, then you not only have an orgasm, but you still spend more effort to convince him that you are experiencing. You assume his emotional work, but it's not your role. If you fear that your man may be hurt, you take his feelings, and it's not sexy.
The ideal would be to take the initiative in their hands (and in a figurative and literal sense) and at the same time to show him how it should be done in order to bring you maximum pleasure, but when not, it's better just to say "I feel good". And if you want to reach orgasm, it is best to talk to him about why, in your opinion, this is not happening, perhaps you are too tense or distracted by other thoughts.
Do not discuss his previous lovers
Frankness in bed does not mean that you should publish complete and accurate information about their previous sex life. Even if your sole purpose in upominanii your ex is the fact that you want to tell your current partner about that with him nothing compares, it is better not to talk about your ex. Otherwise, your boyfriend will begin to imagine Daniel Craig or Antonio Banderas, which fills up you on the bed and satisfies you better than you could do it himself.
Leave the secret number of your past lovers, this should be done not because if it is too big, he decides that you are a woman not too heavy behavior, but because men are beginning to worry about the volume level. Don't have to be a math Professor, so that by simple estimates to calculate that every man may not be the best. Nevertheless, each of them would like to believe that it is with him you were the best.
So, not to mention 1, 2 or 20 nezabyvaemyh the moments that you have had in the past with men and let him have this little illusion that he is the best, and will bring so him confidence. And sex with a confident man usually better than sex with someone who is involuntarily to think, not worse if he than your ex. If you really want to try something, what did you do with someone of his former, it is better to say "I would like that you touched.....", instead of saying, "I once tried to do so-and-so and that was cool." All men are very sensitive to such words, they want to be special and not just following in the list.
Don't be super-mom to the detriment of super wife
After the child you did not love your husband less, on the contrary, you probably love him even more. Though you are not the first and you last that your thoughts now absorbs child. After the whole day you perform the role of a loving and caring mother, you just do not have the strength and desire for something else. This is understandable, but it also means that you often start to say "no" to sex. And this is bad for both of you.
In order to help your sex life to survive the years prior to the beginning of the school your child understand one simple thing - love has no end a limited number, but it is your energy. It is important not to spend all her during the day, and to leave something for the night. Therefore, make for yourself a break and a little rest during the day. The main thing is not to consider the preparation time for sex as another important task that you need to do today. Think about that when you day you give yourself, your energy to someone, namely the child, the sex with her husband can be rewarding and give you pleasure and a sense that you are sexy and desirable mother and mother-hen.
Do not contact with him as his girlfriend
Remember when the last time you dragged my boyfriend to a Shoe store and forced him to keep his coat, bag and umbrella, while selflessly primeraly dozens of pairs of shoes, or when honestly shared with them about what you have wild indigestion. When you returned home, you wanted to pounce on him and tear off the clothes? It is unlikely. Only the fact that you like to do with it what you do with your friends, does not mean that you have to do it.
If you leave your sex life aside, the main reason why your man should not act as a girlfriend, is that it is simply bad happens! And if he can not cope with this role, it will be bad for both of you and of course will not make you closer. Leave this function girlfriends, and your man may be your man.
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