In glossy magazines and lavishly illustrated "guides to sex revealed the theme of size and quantity, erection and orgasm, foreplay and sex positions, Masturbation, deviations, contraception and much more. With a few exceptions. One of them is anal sex.
Myth 1. Anal sex - the modern decline of manners
If so, I wonder how loved each other men in Ancient Greece and Ancient Rome, in medieval Japan, in English private schools for young men in the armies and prisons of all times and peoples? As in cultures where woman's fate depends on its anatomical virginity at the time of marriage, the young lovers have solved this problem? Oh, I can't believe they all over many millennia treated by petting and oral sex.
Myth 2. There is only one way to have anal sex
Actually intercourse is not the only kind of anal sex games. The area of the anus can be stimulated orally (this is called "rimming"), fingers, and using a variety of sex toys specifically designed for anal sex - plugs (caps), vibrators, beads on a solid thread, dildos particularly adapted to the anatomical curve of the rectum forms, etc.
Myth 3. Addicted men to anal sex refers to his secret inclination to homosexuality
In this logic, reason confused with the investigation. Of course, homosexuals actively practicing anal sex - but only because that there is no "normal" way.
Incidentally, a lot of men like to engage in anal sex is not only active but also passive role, and in this too there is nothing "perverse", on the contrary, for men it is a pleasure even in some kind of "natural" than women, because they have a prostate. It is stimulation through the rectal wall and creates a sharp and pleasant sensation, and also works as prevention of prostatitis.
Myth 4. It's bad
This myth is particularly stable, as often evidenced by competent doctors-proctologists. No wonder: it occupation often have to deal with the sad consequences of anal sex, such as tears of the anus and rectum, exacerbation of hemorrhoids, and so forth. Because people who practice this kind of sexual love without any damage to health, simply no need to go to the proctologist.
Actually anal sex is indeed associated with an increased risk of injury, and therefore requires extreme care and special attention. In addition, due to the natural peristalsis rectum works "on exit", and the introduction into it of any items perceived as "invasion" in the body. In this sense, is anal sex really nepisiguit. Finally, during anal intercourse increases the risk of transmission of sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.
To have anal sex without harm to health, but, first, carefully, secondly, in moderation, third, paying special attention to the protection from infections.
Myth 5. It hurts
Some porn Actresses (and sometimes actors) is injected into the anus items truly immense size, and those not suffering look. And not because these shootings choose some special models, but simply because do not spare time to prepare for such extreme entertainment - it can last, literally, for hours.
If anal penetration performed correctly, carefully, carefully, without haste and without saving the grease, and the passive partner is healthy and not afraid of pain should not be. From which it follows that if the passive partner is healthy, and hurt him - either he is afraid of, or active partner is doing something wrong.
The pain of the fear arises in the following way. In the rectum at a distance of a centimeter or two from the anus and about a half-centimeter in size from each other are two sphincter. External people can manage, clenching and unclenching his will, about the same as flexes and extends his hand. And the internal "works" reflex - reflex person blinks or swallow saliva.
Now, the feeling of fear, even unconscious, makes this internal sphincter to contract, actively resisting "the invasion", which, of course, creates a sharp pain. To avoid them, it is only necessary not to rush, giving the sphincter muscles time to adapt to the feelings, to understand that nothing bad happens, and relax.
Another factor pain - dry. Anus, unlike the vagina, does not produce natural lubrication, and the introduction into it of any object without a sufficient amount of lubricant will create unpleasant, "scraping" feeling. Despite the abundance specially designed for anal sex lubricants, they are something best avoided. They contain anesthetic (usually lidocaine), and nefarious. After all, pain is a signal that something is wrong, a warning about a possible injury. Pain in anal penetration cannot be muted or tolerate, it should be avoided initially.
Myth 6. This dirty
Indeed, if the rectum is something there is not violet. What sane active partner, offering anal intercourse, I hope, are aware of that.
Particularly squeamish, though, just in case to make washing the rectum using a standard douche syringes. Shyness can be overcome, making this erotic game. But not to get too carried away with it. First, the enema itself causes slight irritation of the tissues of the anus, and by the end of hygienic procedures because of the "nitrogenase" anus all the interest in the "main action" may the abyss.
Secondly, the enema is interference with the natural rhythm of departure the body's needs, and the abuse of washing may cause constipation. In addition, enema "washed out" natural intestinal microflora. In General, if anal sex should not be done too often, to anal sex, preceded by lavage, this applies even more.
Myth 7. It's nice
Anal sex really pleasant very many... but not all. It is associated with a very specific feelings, which often have long to listen, to understand, like them or not. One pleasure movement "inside", the other more physiological sensations "output", at the third initiation is "over the head", from awareness of the violation of a taboo and the invasion of the "forbidden zone" and someone all of the above is not cute.
And that's fine. Nobody is obliged to do anal (as, indeed, any other) sex against his own desire to please the partner, "because everyone is doing it" or, conversely, to demonstrate their particular sexual advancement.
Another thing is when people deprive themselves of one more fun going on about prejudices or because of the inability to cope with problems that really require a "high skills" classes. But open-mindedness and the excellent "technical" performance is not guarantee of unearthly delight from anal sex. But they guarantee that if you still don't like it - so really do not like. And no drama in this no - good, other ways missing.
Rules of anal sex
- Lubrication do not happen too much. For anal sex use water-based lubricants, which after some time thereafter. If necessary, it needs to be added.
- Haste is only needed when catching fleas. Anal penetration does not tolerate haste and bustle.
To overcome fear in the first experiments with anal sex, it is better to refrain from intercourse, can be limited to the stimulation of the finger. To begin with just one, it's certainly not scary. Gradually getting used to the unusual sensations and, most importantly, "recognizing the body" that it doesn't hurt passive partner will be able to make objects bigger than a thumb.
- Himself man is not navneet. Independent preparation for penetration - using their own fingers or anal sex toy also helps to overcome fear.
- An exacerbation of the hemorrhoids and digestive disorders such as constipation and diarrhea - from anal sex, it is better to abstain.
- What was in the rectum, you cannot enter into other parts of the body. To continue, erotic games after anal sex, you have to make a small intermission: the fingers, the penis and the toy can be washed with soap, the condom is removed and replaced by a new one.
Source:
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