5 steps to a friendship with the mother-in-law

How to make friends with your mother in law is a question almost every young woman who is married. Well, if the mother in law from the very beginning has accepted you as a daughter, and you and she have become real friends...

What you will need:
- fun kind smile


- flour, apples, welding


- beautiful dishes and tablecloth


- a sincere desire to make friends with his beloved mother of your beloved spouse




Tip 1

. From the very beginning try to live separately from my dear mother-in-law. Then the chances of a good relationship will be much more. If this is not possible ( as is often the case in young families) will have some difficulties, but they can be overcome! First, recognize the right mother-in-law of privacy. She didn't have to sit with my grandchildren at your request, but only if she wants it.



Tip 2. If you had an argument with the mother-in-law or want to gently ask her for a favor, take the time and bake an Apple pie. If you do not know how to cook, buy a pre-made cake. But it is better with his hands, so it is not thought that this cake you want to buy. Lay a beautiful elegant tablecloth. Call her at the table, if she lives with you or invite guests. Put on a friendly face smile (try it for the occasion). Pour-in-law of sweet tea.



Tip 3. Ask her about how things are going at it at work, if not more favorite dog, and as her own health. In General, interest in actively her life - of course, without crossing limits, and keep a lively conversation.
Seeing the mother-in-law, inadvertently suggest that this Saturday you expect to visit and you have no one to leave your baby... After such a warm reception she will not be able to refuse you.





Tip 4. And do so regularly. At least once a month. And not necessarily with the purpose of asking about something, but just because. It would be nice.



Tip 5. If you do not take the mother-in-law, still do so. Let your husband sees that you are doing to build relationships. And if the mother in law it does not respond, it is their problem. And speak highly of her always positive when the husband is to blame for it will always be only you, besides, men love their mothers, and you should not test their patience. For the sake of peace in the family and to lie, isn't it?

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