For the science of love is no longer such a mystery. All our feelings are the result of natural chemical processes, scientists say. So, these feelings can easily manage.How to seduce any man, based on scientific evidence and the experience of generations, wrote in his book the English psychologist Andrew TRIZ. Here are some interesting tips from this creation.
How to get him to speak first?
Studies show that the vast majority of men have a negative attitude towards women, showing initiative in the introduction. Most of the negative causes the proposal to treat him with something" or an invitation to drink.
So if you want to attracted to you handsome he began the conversation in your Arsenal remain the only non-verbal methods of communication. For example, open the eye gaze in his eyes and a broad, placid smile. Men prefer to have explore themselves; but the object of your attention must be 100 percent sure that you will not refuse. Here and enter the battle feminine wiles: the more you look at him casually, to smile and not look at the clash of views, the more likely you are to achieve our goals. Or rather, about 60% of men are perfectly on such signs.
Moreover, non-verbal signals are much stronger effect on men than even the appearance of women. This was the conclusion the researcher Monica Moore, who conducted a series of experiments in Dating. According to estimates Moore, most of the proposals to continue the evening was not the most attractive ladies, and those who were sending silent signals more often. On average, 35 smiles and glances dealt per hour, brought on 4 new acquaintances at the same time.
We seem familiar?
According to Andrew TRIZ, women who are in the inner circle of men, draw them on average 2 times more than casual acquaintances. So look closely at your friends, colleagues and even neighbors on the bus - perhaps some of them will be a man dreams, and even your secret admirer.
If you want to get some macho from another Department at work, but you don't even know his name, again proceed according to the scheme "let them speak first." Try to deal with him as often as possible and do not forget to smile.
Magic bag
If you don't like to wear makeup, at least take the trouble to use lipstick. Studies show that the brighter the woman's lips, the better the first impression it has on unfamiliar men. This can partly be explained by the laws of evolution. Because every creature instinctively seeks to procreation, men subconsciously choose partners with the highest reproductive potential. And red lips is a physiological sign of sexual health of the woman and her readiness to give birth.
Seize the moment
Another secret of seduction scientists also suggested evolution. The researcher Geoffrey Miller of the University of new Mexico (USA) found that women are most attractive to men when most able to conceive. In the period of ovulation. This is the conclusion inquisitive scientist pushed observations... for strippers, whose tips are directly dependent on their attractiveness.
As found by Miller, in the period of menstruation (when the chances of conception meager) income dancers is about 35$. per hour; in the middle of the menstrual cycle, this figure rises to 47 dollars; and with the beginning of the ovulation time income dancers in the middle reaches 65-70 dollars.
The reason, says Miller, is that men, without knowing it, respond to physiological signs of ovulation (blush, breast augmentation, allocation of special pheromones in sweat and so on) and therefore consider women in this period as the most desirable and attractive. In addition, during ovulation in women slightly improves the color and condition of the skin, and it is traditionally considered a sign of health and beauty.
In General, the artificial suppression of ovulation, can, and will save you from unwanted pregnancy, but it may deprive the chances of any intimate relationship at all. According to the same study Miller, dancer, "sitting" on birth control, had consistently the lowest income.
What not to do on a date
One of the biggest English clubs Dating has surveyed its customers and found that irritates and alienates them on the first date most. Respondents were asked to imagine a typical date in the restaurant at dinner; and this is what came of it:
- 46% do not tolerate when he/she is talking during dinner on a mobile phone;
- 41% will not continue a relationship with someone who scolds or in conflict with the restaurant personnel;
- 26% of men and 37% of women do not suffer talkers, constantly speaking of his own person;
- 30% remained confined to one date with someone who would talk about his ex;
- 45% of men can't stand women who spoke on the first date, about his weight, nutrition or new diets.
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