What to do if your child smokes?

You smell of tobacco from the child, and understand that it's not friends "napisali" on it, what to do? To punish? And maybe just talk...


To punish or not to punish?




Bans only encourage children to certain actions. And if he was just wondering, now he still will want to do it for evil. Do not waste your nerves, better get him on confidential conversations.




Before you start a conversation, understand that the child himself knows that Smoking is harmful. Remember, you at his age thought about the future? No, it means that we must look for another way of impact.




Try to figure out why he does it, because knowing the cause, it is easier to get rid of the problem.





Want to be an adult!


Reasons why children start to smoke, not so much. The first is to seem grown - up. The second company.




Open Smoking adults adolescents perceive as age privilege, the Smoking is done in their eyes the material attribute adulthood. So it's best just to give the opportunity to feel himself an adult child through another manifestation of growing up. Simply put, every adult has their responsibilities, give them a child and perhaps to prove its significance" in a harmful way, he will have no meaning.




The second reason is more complicated, because the company is actually environment for your child outside of school and home. But if Mohammed will not come to the mountain, then the mountain must come to Mohammed. Try to become a friend of your child's friends. Invite them to visit, show a lot of useful ways to spend time than to wander the streets and backyards.

Source:

Women's Magazine

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