Together forever, or to marry a colleague

People often learn on the job, fall in love, get married... At this moment usually end in romantic movies and novels. But in reality, after the "happy end" life is just beginning. Is it possible to communicate with someone twenty-four hours a day and to maintain a normal relationship?


Many believe that there is and always be together - at home and at work - it is impossible, sooner or later, these relationships will collapse, either one of the spouses will have to find another job for the sake of peace in the family. Is this true? Not always! There are a few simple and logical principles, which provide the opportunity to bring harmony in family relationships and to clearly separate "work" from "personal".




First - do not allow yourself to wallow in working problems! Clearly decide for yourself that when you go home, leave the worries at the office where they will quietly wait for you until tomorrow. Free time should be inviolable and dedicated to only your family to discuss joint plans a vacation, for example.




Second - do not mix work and personal on an emotional level. If you have had an argument because of unpaid bills or navyazannogo bin, that is no reason to criticize your mate for being late to a meeting or to find fault with quarterly report. Learn to control your emotions.




Third - do not get joint pastime. General job, apartment, friends, Hobbies... Sooner or later you find that you absolutely, to detail all know about this man... Bored to death. So always leave a place and time for your personal space. Do embroidery, fitness, carried away anything really, and you will always find something to surprise your loved one.




Fourth - chase away the feeling of jealousy! In any job there are times when you have for your colleagues envy, and that's fine. It had to be me" - everyone ever thought so, looking at moving service partner. But if this "friend" was your significant other, find the strength genuinely happy for him or her and to feel proud of his or her success!




And finally, fifth, the most important thing - surprise! Don't let yourself be immersed in the everyday life and routine, forgetting about romance. Give gifts, not paying attention to the color of the date in the calendar, crevices in an unexpected weekend trip, go together in a movie - let every day will be full of surprises! And then we can guarantee your loved one will feel that he is loved!

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