Women's magazines are full of articles about female orgasm. Scientists and laymen argue about how, finally, women begin to experience the where is the G spot, are there differences between clitoral and vaginal orgasms.But the male orgasm as much attention as a rule, not given...
It would seem that it may be easier male orgasm? And like to make special efforts to reach the peak of pleasure the man is not required. But all is not as simple as it seems on our female gaze.
His orgasm is not as simple as it seems
The process of sexual arousal in women is carried out by means of the clitoris, vagina and uterus, and men involved in penis, prostate gland and seminal vesicles.
The process of male orgasm can be divided into several stages.
In the initiation phase: blood flow, erections, increased heart rate, pripodniatii and the increase in size of the testicles, agitation nipples.
Plateau phase: further increase the size of penis and testicles, the complete lifting of the testicles, crimson heads (not always), the secretion of Kopelovich glands, hyperventilation.
The phase of orgasm: sperm and accompanying fluids are ejected from VAS duct, seminal vesicles and prostate
cancer, accumulating at the base of the urethra near the prostate.
Further there is a tonic spasm of the muscles, increases blood pressure and breathing rate, tight closure of the sphincter of the bladder, rhythmic contractions of the prostate, perineal muscles and the release of sperm.
The man feels a certain hazy consciousness.
Phase resolution: loss of erection, lowering the testicles and the relaxation of the scrotum, full suspension muscle spasms and blood flow, lowering heart rate and blood pressure.
Orgasm without ejaculation, and multiple orgasms are not myths, and pathology
There are two main differences between male orgasm and female: the first men in orgasm ejakulat, i.e. emit semen; the second after ejaculation they need rest to recover, while the woman continued intercourse, you may get repeated orgasms.
However, men and women can experience multiple orgasms, but in the case of men - this is the pathology of a reason to go to the doctor.
In the opinion of the candidate of medical Sciences, sexologist Sergei Agarkova, male multiple orgasm indicates a problem in the brain: such men may be manic-depressive psychosis or some brain damage caused by trauma or tumor.
Also in healthy male orgasm is always accompanied by ejaculation, i.e., the emission of semen.
If a man happens orgasm without ejaculation, this points to some kind of neurological condition in which ejaculation occurs inside the bladder.
However, there is another explanation of male orgasm without emission of semen, he's just faking it!
Abstinence is the strongest aphrodisiac
Women certainly notice that the male orgasm after forced abstinence - for example, after travel is particularly intense.
And if to flirt occasionally with her own husband on the phone or in ICQ... This tactic works great and at a time when the next man.
It is enough to tease a man during the day, giving him to understand that you just die, how much I want to make love to him.
Sexologists, for example, recommend casually bare before him the chest, when you dress in the morning, hurrying to work, or you can call him day in office, straightforward telling about their sexual desires.
Smart women know how to sow the seed of lust, which subsequently will result in a strong male orgasms.
However, prolonged abstinence can only harm the health. Long lack of sex in men can lead to erectile dysfunction and ejaculation problems.
Some doctors even believe that if a man is less than six orgasms in a month, it increases the chances of getting cancer... breast cancer.
Pulling the final moment intensifies orgasms
Both for women and for men, has a rule: the longer the foreplay, the stronger the orgasm. Especially the prelude important for men over the age of thirty.
But, at the same time, the instinct pushes men to continuously "seeding".
The task of a good mistress is the ability to restrain the occurrence of orgasm in men that sex lasted enough time to build that tension, which then go into a memorable finale.
To create the atmosphere for a long, relaxing sex, professionals are advised to start with slow, sensual strokes back.
Different distances to the final tactics should be introduced in a preliminary game. Work great and small breaks in sex.
The position of "woman on top" here is perfect, as it helps the man to resist the desire to cum.
There is an excellent prolonging method, which is called "compression technique". As soon as the orgasm may seem inevitable, it is necessary to compress the base of the penis with one hand and then resume sex.
Spontaneous sex is a strong orgasm
Sexual arousal is a mysterious and very powerful thing. Sometimes spontaneous impulse to jump in the pool with his head, indulging in a furious passion, can lead to the strongest orgasm.
This is inherent by nature: sex without ceremony gives to appear male animal instinct.
Cause a man to have sex: it may be the proximity of the Elevator, in a train compartment, away with unlocked doors or on the threshold of his apartment after his return home from work, when he's not expecting anything.
In the latter case, it would be better if the woman in advance, bringing themselves to the desired condition, then quick sex in the finals will be enough for an unforgettable orgasm is not only for him but for her.
And if the man is the initiator of spontaneous sex partner makes sense to have initially some resistance, because more than anything, the man loves to win.
It cannot detract
As mentioned above, the male orgasm has several stages. First, the sperm is ejected from the testicles and is suspended together with ejaculatory fluids in the area below the prostate gland.
This time some sexologists called "ejaculatory inevitability", meaning that even if at this point the room will include relatives, ex-girlfriend or even the Pope, the orgasm will still happen, as if nothing had happened.
The second stage happens seconds later is actually the ejaculation.
If possible, do not interrupt the concentration of men during these two stages.
The use of different sexual techniques that you both know and love, in this moment quite acceptable.
But don't do something drastic and unexpected - it will only distract the attention of men and the beauty of the moment will be lost. This is not the time for passionate movements and bed creativity.
Its main erogenous zone - member
When the excitement reaches a critical point and the inevitable orgasm, men are active only one "erogenous zone".
This does not mean that men don't like foreplay and kissing. Very much like. But when it comes to orgasm, all the attention women should be focused on the penis.
When a man wants to achieve high-quality, strong orgasm, he instinctively chooses posture in which the member can be best stimulated, and where most dense compression.
That is why the best lovers are women who are familiar with Kegel exercises. Practicing these exercises, you can learn to reduce the vaginal muscles.
If the woman repeats like during sex, the male seems that his cock seemed to compress by hand.
Men have special erogenous zones
Yes, during orgasm all men's attention focused in the area of the member. But there are other sensitive areas, stimulation of which can bring orgasm.
Of course, they have each their own. And often men don't like to immediately admit their preferences, a little embarrassed by them.
One of such areas are the testicles. Some women are afraid to touch them, because they think it will cause the man pain.
Actually the pain is felt only the strong impact, but stroking this area usually gives men great pleasure.
There are men with sensitive nipples as women. Some exciting, if your partner sucks on his fingers.
One of the most sensitive areas for men between the anus and the scrotum. Sexologists recommend to stimulate this area at the moment of orgasm.
His orgasm depends on your pleasure
I have to say that this item is not an absolute truth for all men. However, for many orgasm as a reward for a well done task.
In this case, the task refers to the satisfaction of the woman. The drive, which a man feels in bed, directly connected with the needs of... his own ego.
That is why for many men is very important orgasm woman is his reward for the excellent work done; and his own orgasm, however, remains in the background.
Such relations men for sex has its negative side.
For example, if the follower is for any reason unable to experience orgasm, sex for men is becoming a real pain, stressful and lowering his self-esteem.
In such situations, sexologists recommend that women give to men the rest, showing initiative in sex.
Give him pleasure, becoming a leading in sex and allowing him to be the slave.
Experts recommend often be interchanged with each other, alternating the roles of the active and passive partner.
The orgasm of the man depends on the mood
The biggest secret of the male orgasm is that at this moment exposed all the helplessness and vulnerability of men.
That is why men are so dependent on the environment: if something goes wrong, they can instantly lose the erection.
Many, for example, can't cum because of problems at work. And because of the strong stress the glans becomes dry and painful.
He also needs love
In fact, many men are looking for sex is the same as women, namely love, location, partner, emotional intimacy.
And although men do not like to show their emotions in the moment of orgasm they have nothing to hide.
Most men can't hold a strong moans and muscle cramps, and some may start to growl, bite, cry, and even dirty swear.
At the moment of orgasm he would probably like it, if you will keep it close to his buttocks and look at him with admiration and love.
Source:
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