Each of us from time to time get the feeling that everything we do is crap. I want to radically change their lives, but how is unknown. If you intend to find a deal of your life, start immediately!
Avoid reflections. This means - don't suffer in vain, not "chewing" unpleasant facts and events, which once again confirm that you are not their business. Don't think about it at all! Every time you will feel that you will sink into the abyss of negative and unconstructive thoughts - just turn off the brain.
This can be done in different ways: loud music in headphones, a conversation with a colleague or friend, urgent work (Yes, of the same, boring).
Give yourself a short break. As a rule, only two days. But it is very important that at this time, you were free from their daily obligations and could devote time to yourself. The best option is to go for a weekend in another city that you have ever been and feel comfortable there. In this case, you will have no temptation to look at the sights all day, and you will be able to be done.
Look for the call. You should not torture yourself questions: what I wanted to do in life? What is the purpose attracts me? All of these standard and banal questions already so tired that they do not find, if you act "in the forehead".
Instead, try to find difficult (really difficult) task, when you think about which you would appear fuse, the desire to prove something to others.
Remember childhood dreams. Write down on a sheet of paper everything you dreamed of as a child, even if it seems silly. Do not be confused by the abundance of points, but if they are very small - this means that you deeply "buried" the child in yourself, and you should correct this situation. Indulge, let yourself to spend some time not serious and will feel back to you childhood dreams. Do not miss this feeling, but on the contrary, try to strengthen it. And write down everything that comes to mind.
Then look at the list described in paragraph No. 3 perspective.
Be consistent. Selecting one task that gives you a sense of courage, not retreat. The problem with most people who suffer in search of targets is inconsistent. They take on one task, then throw it, once the initial enthusiasm has waned, find something new and again in a circle. In the end, they see no results and over time, disappointed in myself.
Try to follow through - and you will feel, how much energy you have. Moreover - what great results you can achieve, going in the selected direction, the easier it will be to move forward. And gradually you forever leave a doubt in the correctness of his calling!
Source:
Woman To Woman
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