The concept of "aunt" is not related neither to age nor weight, nor social position. Exist and lovely young ladies seventy years, have no memory of falling in love with plumbing from the Housing Department, and the ancient twenty-year-old woman, concerned solely the opinions of others and common decency.What makes us young really and that turns into boring aunts?
A sense of humor
The ability to laugh - sincerely, rampant and contagious is one of the true will of the youth. The tiresome aunts sense of humor is not at all, especially this kind of as self-irony.
Aunt resentful, vindictive and suspicious. And they are very respected, and all the weight that respect gravestone falls on the shoulders of others. Anecdotes? Yes no my God! Over the jokes and anecdotes aunt not laughing, because I sincerely believe that they want to humiliate, not to cheer.
It has long been known that the sense of humor depends on the level of intellectual development of man. Therefore, in order not to become an aunt, engage in self-development. Learn how to play chess. Start to learn a foreign language. Not only Kenite! And to think scientists charlatans and watch for the morning program "thinks " is the most that neither is a sure sign of incipient in you aunt.
Levity
Another sign of youth, frivolity, when we allow ourselves to live easily, without thinking about the consequences of our choice. Cautiously, you say? Possible. But this quality sometimes allows us not to feel the load of the passing years and the sword of Damocles own life experience over the head.
All of us moms taught prudence and caution. And it is correct. However, sometimes we are too careful. Besides the feeling of happiness very often can not be combined with prudence. It is from the girls parents in childhood setrasari conscience, and obtained excellent aunt, who will never climb a tree, not a fight with the boys, we will die, but will not give a kiss without love, and so forth, and the like.
So sometimes you need to afford a little extra. And allowing that to go further - without overwhelming feelings of guilt and regret. To live with a constant eye on the opinions of others - not the best option. And the most boring.
The wind of change
Every morning, going to the bus stop, I always waiting for the one lovely ladies sixty-five years. And it invariably appears, rather, leaves. On the scooter. Light jacket, light scarf, fashionable sunglasses. And very often in the metro, it is much ahead of us - those who are doomed remained standing at the bus stop waiting stuffed chock transport.
And grandma and grandpa my girlfriend is an avid tourists. They often go to the Altai, settling in the mountains with a tent, and come back rejuvenated, happy and more in love each other. But at home potano watching the Discovery channel. About the aborigines of Australia or the life of polar bears grandmother knows so much that at family gatherings we listen to her with his mouth open.
Dislike of travel and change places, critical attitude to anything new - that's what makes aunts especially obnoxious. Put her face to face with the hanging gardens of Babylon - she'll find something to complain about. But most likely, no gardens aunt will not go. Why? Because the aunts all known in advance. Own life experience (usually poor) and five maxims from the popular series - and that's all their Luggage.
People who to a great age are curious and curiosity, not afraid to do something against their own fears and accepted "standards of conduct" will never lose young glint in his eyes.
Ready to fall in love
Love is what makes us truly young, how old we were not. And if you think that reckless love - only a portion of young and early, then you are deeply mistaken. Or become an aunt.
We often guided by reason and your own life experience, usually negative. We are afraid of the feelings of love - and it is in vain. Even memories of happy love can make you younger. Don't believe?
Sit for 20 minutes in a comfortable chair in a quiet and peaceful place, close your eyes and try to remember the happiest moments of my life. Slowly and breathe deeply. And then look in the mirror. And the glow of your eyes will dispel all doubts.
Tune in to youth
It has long been observed that a man as old as he "allows" themselves to look. People behaving as if they are much younger than it actually is, and look accordingly.
In order to feel young, we must not look back. Quite interested in the lives of young, not afraid to change their habits and lifestyle as they do.
Easy to forget and easy to forgive. Do not nag or without cause. Just believe that you are young and stay young!
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