Glamorous feminine. Women embody glamour and at the same time they are its victims. He appeals to our shadow side of the psyche that needs adoration and admiration. Female neurosis is the result of lack of maternal love and the male recognition. It is characterized by almost no saturated in need of love. Even beyond the illusion of people willing to pay the highest price. Of course, this tension lies the uncertainty in his own values, the desire to hide their true needs, the desire to sublimate, and not to be realized, i.e. psychologically to survive, not to thrive and change.
If glamour is chosen as a profession, this pressure protection unconscious attachment to the field of love, giving legitimate status of their pathological dependence. Any pathology can be attractive if she has a favorable facade. We see a lot of people-puppets who sell their stories of success, and actually become alcoholics from loneliness and disorientation, or just don't know what to do, once removed makeup and high heels. I was struck by the popularity of Evelina Khromchenko - hard woman claiming to be supersessionist. Indicative think its the voice of the heroine of the film "the Devil wears Prada". Instead of the voice sensual Meryl Streep - the voice of the dead, crushed women, gnashing, and not intonation.
Stars, priests glamour lone, which characterizes narcissistic attachment to yourself. Narcissism is not correctable. With such people cannot establish a deep psychological connection. They despise anyone who is not ready to capitulate to their charm.
Beauty - good luck
Indeed, given birth beauty is a gift of fate. She gives a head start in many endeavors. The attractive pay more attention. But beauty is in virtue of this and more vulnerable, more susceptible to foreign influences. She needs daily care. And most importantly, it is fraught psychological dependence on their appearance. Because if the core of the identity can be expressed through the "I am beautiful", the loss of beauty, aging is accompanied by depression, demoralization, loss of perspective. That is why it is still important ideals comprehensively developed personality - from Antiquity and the Renaissance. They allow us to adequately complete all stages of life. Bias in any direction, whether the need for adoration or excessive greed, freezes and dries the human soul. A beautiful woman is not so much the object of admiration as a commodity.
The guarantor domination
We live in a country where relationships between people are based on the psychological rules of the bout. We love to throw the show off "in the form of expensive items of clothing. The fate of glamour in the special. He continues the tradition of goons bustle and bright symptoms of aggression covert and overt criminal communities that we find among politicians and among officials, and among TV channels, i.e. among pseudolite, if the elite still assume those who brings real benefits to their country, and will not exploit its resources for the benefit of his family or group. Dress code, type of car - all the signals belonging to the class. The social structure of our society continues to hold on hidden networks and pyramids (vertical) power. Formal affiliation and status - only cover real relationships and nizavisimasti.
Psychosis consumption
Personality develops through awareness of their needs, but it is important not only to find the urge, you need to find him a place in his life. If you raise a child in deprivatio, he will experience hunger, which is implemented in the case. So do not refuse to try a lot of interesting things. Dangerous if it becomes a mania. Thirst acquisition, shopaholism, creditmany - all these manifestations of mass psychosis consumption, driven by advertising. Glamorous pulls a train industry, interested in active, unrestrained consumer.
The cult of the package
We already know that the costs for packaging and promotion account for 70 to 80 percent of the value of things. It's quite expensive.
Triumph visualizations
When we look retrospectively, what forms of communication have had a decisive influence on the formation of consciousness of generations, in the XIX century it was the literature in the twentieth initiative caught the cinema, and in the XXI-the Internet. Gradually established the power of pictures, comics, video. Deep significant relation was no longer interested people. They are interested in the recipes and uses ranging from food to relationships with people, including their children. As an author of books for parents and a representative of the old literary era, I have to rewrite and format their texts as instructions for raising children, accompanying them with comics, which is shown to be false and the correct response to childish pranks.
"How to seduce..." is one of the most popular trends in popular psychological literature. It is entirely due to the interest in sharing, mutual manipulation.
(1) Deprivation - a condition in which people experience a lack of satisfaction of their needs.
Expert opinion
Vlad Lisovets, TV presenter, stylist
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Everybody has their own definition of the good life. In Soviet times it was believed that demonstrate the wealth and luxury of shame and in General it is bad form. But I don't see anything wrong with what people want and can afford to buy an expensive bag to wear clothes of famous brands. Another thing is that the manifestation of gloss in our country sometimes has an exaggerated view, but it is particular that have nothing to do with the world of fashion and beauty. For a huge number of successful people stylish appearance is an opportunity to make a statement about its viability, because to evaluate the mind, intellect, sense of humor at first sight difficult, and well-groomed face, graceful costume, interesting accessories visible to all and at once.
Glamour is just the way in which the woman looks very sleek, eye-catching and living in prosperity that does not mean that it is empty. I know many beautiful women, held in business, happily married, with good mothers.
I don't want to offend anyone, but if you remember many highly educated people who are engaged in fundamental Sciences, then, frankly, attractive - I mean outer beauty - among them is much less than among those who creates and reads gloss.
They have a lot to learn, become analysts, doctors, scientists. People whom nature has generously endowed bright appearance, initially get compliments on it and over time, trying not to lose focus, surround yourself with luxury and beauty.
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