The problem of tainted toys to a greater or lesser extent, applies to each child. The kid is upset, crying, asking you to buy the same or keeps debris, adding to the General heap and not allowing you to throw. In order to understand how best to do in these situations, we will try to find out the reasons for toys turn into junk.
Such a character!
Broken toys will often find in the baby's room-choleric. These kids are restless, short-tempered, inconsiderate and very mobile. Toys they have broken themselves. The kid ran and dropped the toy, angry - swept everything off the table or hurried, impatient attaching fragile plastic piece.To abuse a child, to punish or to read notation makes no sense. The character does not change, but you can adjust. Kid-choleric is not only the massacres and destruction. He is ambitious, brave, active, and persistent. You need to direct his energy in the right direction, learn to control your emotions.
Distract the child, switch it with another wave or just quiet. Try to notice the mood of the baby and cuddle him before he gets mad. It would seem that this child does not need to give the designer or clay - let is worn on the court with the ball, beat a punching bag or tumble on the Mat. So toys will stay safe. But the task is not that. It is necessary to teach the baby care and assiduity. This is best sculpting, drawing, model kits and Board games. Start with the last: table hockey or football - that is necessary! Immediately to bring choleric for intellectual games will not work.
Isn't it time to relax?
It happens that the kid broke his toy just from fatigue or poor health. Make sure that your baby is overtired, and if it did, try to calm him quiet games without unnecessary noise and fast movements. Baby can be worn around the apartment, throwing toys or jump on the couch is not always a sign that he is full of energy. From overwork children can be very active.
Not my size
Baby toys can not match him in age. If your baby interested to play with them, you might like to break. Try to keep toys baby grew up together with him. The older the baby, the more functional items he needed. Unnecessary, boring machines, rattles or riding the kid does not break, he reconstructs them to start another game. It is difficult to think of many games with clockwork bear who bangs the drum. So we have the drum off! You need to toy developed imagination. The kid should be able to give his character selected by the character himself to voice it change the movement of the toy in his own story.
Choosing baby store new friends, refrain from driving, speaking, singing toys, figurines fixed posture, motionless. Perhaps the right choice will solve the problem of broken toys!
Teach your child to play. Show him how you can liven up toys, how to build a track for cars, house of bricks, how to organize a story game. Do not assume that children know how to play from birth. The game is also some work that requires imagination, knowledge and skills.
What's in there?
Simple curiosity is another cause of breakage. Children learn about the world, and it is normal and right. Just having a thirst for knowledge, you can discover something new. Nosy little better to offer toys-designers. Kids love to disassemble, reassemble, to play in a new way. There are machines that you can promote special tools part is your option. Collect for the baby box "Young researcher". There can come a large part of the old clock, an alarm clock, magnets, magnifying glasses, computer mouse, which can be disassembled, etc. Attention, do not leave child unattended!
She!
It is no secret that some childhood treasures really can break practically themselves. The poor quality of the toys is not only dangerous to health. If the baby takes, for example, a machine in hand and she falls off some, then there are other problems. First, the child's first upset. Secondly, the baby gradually becomes accustomed to such damage and refers to him calmly: "What broke! You need to throw it away and buy a new one! " Such things only too frustrating. Thirdly, the child is not accustomed to the accuracy, but on the contrary, understands that, no matter how he tried, failure is inevitable and in this case particularly cherish this toy has no meaning.
Toys low quality in most cases even impossible to repair. Meanwhile, it would be nice to fix with a child's broken toy, to seal old books.
And so it was!
If a child broke his toy is not so bad. And what if the kid messed up thing another kid? Of course, it would be correct to apologize or offer to do it together: baby must understand that, even if he accidentally messed up thing another person or something has caused inconvenience, you need to ask forgiveness. As compensation you can offer to buy a similar toy or make a gift obydennomu baby.
However, questions arise. What if the toy is very expensive? Is every to pay money? If you know that your baby is curious or, to put it mildly, not very careful to avoid unnecessary problems, you specify the subject of expensive toys and their failures, communicating with mothers in the sandbox or in the kindergarten. Offer not to give children a expensive things. After this conversation, in case of breakage strange things apology will be enough.It was not necessary to calm your baby when you break his toy, and indignant reaction of the parents of the abuser, discuss it with your child. This situation is easier to prevent than to find complex solutions. Do not take to the streets particularly expensive or favorite toys baby. Explain that other children may be less cautious, and the toy will break.
What to do with rubbish?
Often, putting things in order in the nursery, I'd like to throw a couple of bags of debris, fragments, parts, damaged and broken toys and a lot of rubbish - colorful packaging, pebbles twigs, pods from the cream But the child does not allow you to do away with the trash once and for all.
Let's start with the reasons. Maybe the kid doesn't want to part with their "wealth" only because he sees how you keep carefully the old bag, the clothes do not wear, broken iron... Many adults can't easily get rid of unnecessary things just because so did their parents. If you want your child was enrolled in a different way - start with yourself.
Protest!
Maybe the baby really need all these things? Just try to find an option to keep these things on the seats to allocate a special box or drawer. As often with such parts remaining from toys, play very interesting. You can connect them together and get something new. In addition, because of the fact that bear someone pulled his hand back, he was no less loved...
The baby's room is his world, though there is what he needs. Broken soldiers or doll without hair, a bottle of spirits from or found on the street a stone!
Author:
Androsova M
Source:
Happy parents
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