You dreamed of a strong man on whom you can rely... And live with infantile man who needs your help....
You share your life with, however feel that you are not equal partners. Your cute
strives to you praised him, spoiled him and helped him. And this is surprising, because the work is completely different...
What happens? "Man looking for a woman his mother happy, if the partner does his functions and assumes the difficulties of life together, " says psychologist Irina Lagoda. - This desire pushes men into the arms of powerful women, self-confident and active. Such women
usually successful in business. And they are ready to lead in family Union".
Relationships in which a strong woman is a "locomotive" that can satisfy both sides. The man conveniently arranged in the shade of the high-spirited wife, and if he wills, he outwardly may even make an impression on others authoritarian macho. But home companion powerful woman has what she always wanted - all privileges naughty child.
Are you tired of being married to the eternal boy? Remember that you are not obliged to agree to such a relationship! Better help your partner to become finally an adult. Don't take on his responsibilities, not save him. Constantly podcherkivau that he is a strong shoulder on which you want to build. Podtalkivali it and praise for success!
He will grow up!
What if he...
Nothing can, nothing helps. You have two choices: either you and then everything will do, or will gradually teach him all - how his innocent son. And teaching - stimulated and praise for success! Let them feel the head of the family and the owner of the house.
Has many Hobbies, the minimum obligations. Your partner goes skiing, collecting cufflinks, photography... You want him to have a serious career ambitions! Ask him if he imagined and described how he sees himself and your relationship, say, in five years... And still think, maybe he's right and you're too serious attitude to life. Try to learn to enjoy little things, as he does.
Don't want to grow up. Your favorite defies conventions and feels uncomfortable in a suit, although already traded the fourth ten. Do you like his style in clothes, but only on vacation... You can affect the partner, if will strongly emphasize that he is a Mature man, next to which an elegant woman (of course, it's you! ). However, needless to insist? Clothing should reflect the personality and not to bind his master. If you go with him, dress him. Believe me, this young!
According to the magazine "Polina"
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