"Oh! What do you want? ", "Can I cum in you? ", "Love it!!! "You just made for me! ", "Oh, you're my slut! ", "How do you excite me! ", "Eat me! ", "Tell me that you love me! " The number of appropriate replicas is not limited. And we are confident that each of you is ready to make a worthy literary contribution. Of course, sometimes passion can be expressed without words, and the fun doesn't always need to word "seasoning", but the words make the sex more freedom.
Scientists carefully studied shame and shamelessness in the words of love. And, by their own admission, failed and failing to disclose all laws secret sex dialogue. They managed to bring only one, but a universal rule. No matter what phrases are used vulgar or delicate. It is important not to offend the partner and to avoid conflict between word and deed. Perhaps scientists mean that it is not necessary to simultaneously say "you're my favorite Bunny" and to beat the "Bunny" whip. Although why not...
His own producer
Some incorrigible romantics during the development of his novel invent a dictionary "erogenous" words. Some are excited by what he heard phrase during the first bodily contact. Others like to order, to look, to ask questions, to accuse, to caducity, to ask, to photograph and even hesitate for ten consecutive years. Why you ask? Just sex, like everything that surrounds us is a game in which the main thing to know the rules in order to experience true pleasure.
And then - silence
However, we must recognize that not all love "conversational genre. Some make the choice in favor of gestures.
It is possible to listen to your body, listen to pleasure. In this case, when a partner starts to say it can be distracting and sometimes even discourage. Because eroticism is born from the mysterious, unspoken.
Convinced "silent" sure you should be able to guess the desires of the partner, without asking, and trying to talk with them during sex is perceived almost as aggression. However, it is unnecessary to include them in the category of conservatives. Rather, it is conventional reinsurance.
Undecideds usually do "mind talk", which is sometimes safer direct dialogue. It is difficult to predict the reaction partner - especially unfamiliar. The inevitable difference of tastes has not been canceled. That one is normal, another invalid vulgarity. Nothing can be predicted. All perceive empirically, as they say, at your own risk.
Violators borders
At the peak of desire words can be quite out of place, everybody knows it. With some girls you may get a slap in the face, saying certain, not even very rude words. Many women admit that the man who called them "bitch" or "slut", even in the heat of passion, would be interpreted as a "moron" or "crazy", and they would regret having agreed to have sex with him.
The words in this situation no longer bring together partners, but on the contrary, hinder erotic communication. What is erotic to some, it seems other pornography. And there is nothing stronger than the border that separates the decent from the blackguard in the consciousness of each person.
However, there are couples in which one says a lot (and sometimes expressed obscene), and the other is silent.
Love is risky and complex. There are men who want women uninhibited behavior, but a virgin in words. Or Vice versa. Some insist: "Tell me how it is with others? " Of course, when you participate in the game with someone who is in love truly can be difficult. But if you love truly, little favorite pranks you can always close your eyes.
Source:
Elle
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