In Ancient India, and indeed throughout the ancient world, love was made to speak, to write and to share the experience, without the slightest shame. The art of pleasure was considered to be the same skill as embroidery, singing, playing musical instruments. It is not surprising that after so many years, scientists have discovered dozens of treatises on love. They are difficult to classify into erotic novels that men would rejoice at night. Pleasure in them called... Science. And give the Eastern answers to the questions unsophisticated Europeans.
Why wear a pot on his head?
Sexuality was brought up from an early age, when girls started to walk. And years of training with a pitcher on her head was fastened. "Imagine that your feet is a vessel with water, from which grows a spine, like a plant that stretches toward the sun, taught every mother her daughter. - Flower blossomed on the end of the stem... that's how you should keep your head".
Tip: watch your gait, imagining that invisible pitcher does not allow you to drop your shoulders, relax your belly and lose posture. Girl, do not know how exactly to go, may not be attractive.
Should I be offended by the nickname "elephant"?
In no case! The nicest compliment that only a man can do a woman. The so-called temperamental partners who prefer vigorous sex. The sages were divided mistresses into several categories: "deer" with a modest desires, "horses" with the ability to "4 + " and "cows" - the most passionate women who can take the initiative in their hands. Under the "initiative" was understood primarily a top position and a set of acrobatic stunts that brought the man went straight to heaven.
Council
: you have to understand yourself the secrets of the "Kama Sutra" and expand the Arsenal of tricks, so in the eyes of the man she loved you had the highest discharge. At least "cows".
Why courtesans were held in high esteem?
Because all the threads of an ancient profession led to the temple, where the priestess performed the sacred sexual rituals. Over time they went outside the walls and moved into the bedroom. But the wise men were still considered sex as a healing class (introduction to wisdom), so courtesans were respected. Moreover, many decent wives envied them. They did not wash her husband's feet did not hit him in the kitchen, did not work in the garden and did not expect the news of the faithful, when the night was gone "at work". Being a smart, funny, loving, courtesans in no way inferior interesting and powerful men who were attracted to. They skillfully seduced chosen by garlands of flowers and precious ointments, entertained by the stories, he sent him to the house of the massage therapist, was invited to cockfights. And if he didn't want to pay...
Council
:learn the art of seduction, it is almost lost in our time. Nothing will prevent you from the bedroom to feel like a priestess.
How to get a man to be generous?
On this account treatises offer 27 ways in which a wise woman can convince her lover to "share" with her own money.
A good time is the morning, when he luxuriates in bed. Passing by, she "absolutely casually" is to complain that I haven't been in the house of my friends, because they came to her with expensive gifts, and she afford to buy even a good wine. Or to tell him that she wants to buy food, drinks and clothes for the next meeting with him, but she had no money for it. To all else, to portray apathy, and after angry questions lover about what happened, to admit that he is sick, and funds for treatment no. In the end, even to play on jealousy partner, spoke about the generosity of his rivals. According to the Indian sages, it always opens a men's wallet.
Councilbe inventive, as you can see, synonyms of the phrase "I need money" - a great many. And none of them touches the female pride.
Where to find a good wife?
Given the "soft" views on morality in those days, to find a godly bride was harder than a needle in a haystack. Therefore, parents chose the daughter-in-law with a special passion.
First staged shows. The groom had to make sure that it has no external flaws - hooked nose, prominent forehead and sweaty palms. Then came a long meeting. If the girl was named after a star, tree, or river, it could bring her husband unhappiness. Did not Bode well and that her name ended in "p" or "l". Tumultuous constellation and comparing the reputation of families, the groom's parents made the decision.
Council: thank heaven for that selection criteria bride now much softer and more human. As for divorce need a more serious problem than "wandering eyes".
What to do if you scratch?
Indian lovers have their little pleasures, called in ancient treatises "erotic traces". It scratches, which they paraded like a love trophies. "Memo" had a certain form and read easily.
In the texts there are no explanations than "Crescent" is different from "blue Lotus", "mark peacock" - from "tiger claw" and "the necklace" - from "clouds". Apparently, it was so clear that waste precious paper on the description of such trifles were considered stupid. Traces of "re-ignite the hearts of men, and were the pride of women (married). As the men could not notice such trophies, remains a mystery to all.
Council: leave about yourself little reminders - sms-Ki, cards, lipstick on the shirt, so that he was looking forward to the next meeting.
How to fall in love with a man?
In conversation with a loved a girl confidentially reported that her mother does not approve of their meetings. He, of course, I started to worry - in the house there is a man who wants to prevent him from happiness.
If it was time to leave, to increase the ardor of a lover, it is easily explained that he could not yet with him to see because of the illness of the mother. In the end, the man began to fight for his love, tied to his beloved stronger.
Council
: follow the Golden rule - heavy victory makes you treasure the trophy. Don't give up without a fight, even on the horizon always looming "threat" - another fan, or a terrible parent, for example.
Talking about kissing?
The sages all called not just kissing, and talking with this ancient language. "In order to stir up love, kiss her lover, when he is asleep, teaches Vatsyayana in his treatise "the Science of pleasure". To show that you're keen on someone, kiss the child, sitting in your lap, in his presence. Or a picture or a figure, when he looks in your direction".
Every touch of the lips should have a hidden meaning that is understood only by two passionate lovers.
Council: Zelaya often or without cause. In any case, it gives a sense of unity and closeness.
The magazine "Prevention", June 2007
Sunday, November 16, 2014
Training sexuality
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