The balance in your relationship

Time only for two - it is of course very important, but who knows how long really should hold together people? In the first weeks of the relationship, the lovers can not imagine a minute without its second half, so they find different methods of communication (SMS, pagers, phone calls, meetings). At first not to see each other seems to be a real torture. There are those who believe that lovers need to spend every minute as this will enrich their relationship. And you agree with that?


Some of us away on the love Affairs too much time, this can lead to various problems. For example, some can "donate" the study or before leaving work to make more time to spend with your loved one, but after, it will put you in an unpleasant situation. You cannot sacrifice your other worries and actions. Soon, things will be worse and worse.




Very good advice for relationships - "quality not quantity". If the couple spends the whole day together, the memories of this wonderful day will be fresh the next day too. At least that's the way it should be before the lovers will meet again. Moreover, the time spent in haste will not help you, such meetings will only reinforce the longing each other.




As strange did not appear, but it is proven that there is such a thing as "hold with each other TOO much time". To some extent, this does harm to your personality. Spending all that time with one person will make you introverted. In addition, you otvyknite from privacy and will never want to do anything alone. Thus, you will simply be dependent on its second half. Of course, we cannot say that it's terrible or wrong, but one day, when your partner just won't be able to give you the attention that he or she can give you, then you will Wake up the doubt in this love. In other words, excessive communication can harm the relationship! So how can you avoid this?




The first and most important: when you start a relationship, we should not forget about family and friends. You in any case should not "cut" them from themselves, otherwise, it will turn into a vicious circle, in which your indifference will make your friends the real snobs towards you. This, in turn, will make you even more attached to their partner, because at that moment you will feel that he or she is the person you need the most.




Focus on how to build a really healthy relationship in which you both will be able to develop as a person. Decide with your other half, what classes you need to share, and what to do together.




Don't say "goodbye" in favorite activities, even if they require privacy. If you, say, loved to go camping to these relationships, then continue to do what you love, even if it means that you will spend time with friends or alone. If you really love your dog, consider it a member of your family, then go with your beloved to the apartment, take it with you. Compromise is the most important thing in a relationship, even losing somewhere, you can win in General.




Go to their dreams. After all, the dream and achieving it is your personal happiness. Do not rush to give up on your dream, even the most daring. Don't let the relationship take the better of you - either emotionally, or mentally. In the end, the relationship may be finite, but the dream remains with you.

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Womanart

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