What is afraid of the man, or how to help him get rid of the fear?

Women are not afraid to show his weakness, but he hardly recognized his phobias. Why do the women need to know about this? And because we will be better able to understand your man and will be able to help him in difficult times to overcome together arisen tests.

So, what is he afraid of?

Disease. That men can be worse than to be helpless? So at the first sign of a cold, runny nose he will panic, depression, lies in bed under a warm blanket, turning pale and rolling his eyes.

Loss of credibility. In each, even minor dispute it, quite angrily insists. After all, he must be clever, and his opinion should be heeded.

Poverty. Man, according to tradition, considers himself to be the breadwinner in the family, duty to take care of yourself and family members with all necessary. Therefore, the fear makes you work up a sweat constantly, that "rainy day" remained.

To look ridiculous. We often notice how men acutely sensitive to ridicule, even harmless humor in his address. And as shoulders back from any, the most incredible flattery.

Strong women. To be called the opposite sex is the prerogative of men only, and nothing else. He is strong always and everywhere - and it must be a fact.

The loneliness. Not only we, women, are afraid of a certain age to be alone, when no one will be "glass of water" to submit. Maybe the only reason why some men and get married?

Stable relationships. This is the fear that the woman will have to share not only a bed but also a lot of domestic problems, to be responsible not only for themselves.

To be weak. They, like us, vulnerable and sometimes sentimental, but in no event it is impossible to show the people their vulnerability and even more tears.

Insolvency. Been dropped or the phrase "You're a loser! " for men sounds like a very harsh sentence. Moreover, in any field: sexy, professional, personal.

How to help the beloved man?

The woman can assist to get rid of these fears his beloved. In any case don't tell him that he did not meet your expectations. Let them know that his fears exist only in his head. Show that you don't need money, but only to himself. Refrain from a new coat and will offer a joint trip, because he was so tired, ensuring family well-being. This way you will deliver him from the mad race for money, career, power. Explain that in life there are many other pleasant things.

Do not get tired to give him compliments, thereby enhancing his self-esteem. When you feel that it is done, do not get tired to talk about it. And this is not flattery, attention is never enough. Remember, self-confident man, poborowski their imaginary fears, will give confidence and to us, women.

Author:

Sukhanov Century


Source:

School of life

women's web magazine