Tuesday, September 2, 2014

How to calculate the "cost" and how to change it?


How to calculate the A little experiment: close your eyes, try to imagine his portrait, painted by someone else. Look at what he try to do it, not opening his eyes. Tell yourself, do it for you, determine what size your portrait? Now eyes can be opened.


If you submitted a portrait paper size A4, you have the normal "cost", if the size is less understated, if the above - inflated. The difference is directly proportional to the size of the image.




"Cost" is an indicator of how you treat yourself, how you value yourself, based on the subjective ratio of "recognized" good and "unconscious" bad qualities. Usually people tend to notice more bad than good. Good is taken for granted, and the bad usually pointed undue attention.




Perhaps the "evaluators" will be with you and disagree, but this is not so important. To start with they will in any case from your personal assessment.




Why you need a positive attitude? Strangely enough, but if it is, man is able to love and forgive yourself and as a consequence - to experience something similar to someone else.




Low "cost" may be due to various reasons, the main of which can be considered negatively oriented environment, a mediocre attitude of friends and acquaintances, questionable criticism of external data and level of intelligence, their own failures and defeats, the presence of false guilt.




Do not attempt to compare its "price" with "value" of other people, we are all different and each got our own scale of jewels, and the ratio may be distorted and not in your favor.




As emergency comes very often self-hypnosis. For a start, we should start to look more at myself in the mirror, you should praise yourself, talk to yourself about your success, love, faith in yourself, to highlight its positive features.




You can create a "diary " achievements", recording all that was already sold out previously scheduled. It would be better if you manage to forget the negative, the bad and gloomy days.




Psychologists advise to try to create in his mind the image of himself. Not to copy what's already piled life, and recreate another detailed picture with sharper features. In other words - what would you like to see yourself. For fastening of the need to "spin" this view at least once a day.




And, finally, self-promotion. Take a sheet of paper on which is written the text sample content: "allow me to introduce you to a good person, he has such qualities as..." (do not skimp on nice words). The text of the advertisement reads also in front of the mirror.




These simple but effective tips will help to move from place machine of adequate perception.




It is not hard to realize that "I" is "I" and this world is no longer the same as "I". All that is in me, everything made by me, belongs to me, I can know ourselves, to change ourselves and live a harmonious life.




According to ancient legend, during his life, a man wears eight pairs of lenses.




The first pair of lenses allows you to see your body.




The second reflects our thoughts (intellect).




The third opens the way into the world of feelings and emotions.




The fourth shows the operation of the senses.




Fifth - defines relationships with people.




Sixth - renders the perception of space, time and the world around them.




Seventh - gives idea about the food (the food).




The eighth lens is the eye of the soul.




All lenses are equally important, they operate as one whole mechanism.




If you put together a mosaic of painted lenses in the form of colored circles inside the circle, you get the energy pattern of the inner "I".




Never too late to start:




- Take care of your own body.


- To develop multi-faceted thoughts and intellect.


- Learn to manage their feelings.


- Be attentive to your feelings, because they connect our inner and outer worlds.


- Try to avoid conflicts, to learn, honest relationship and harmony.


- To understand the physical side needs to learn how to satisfy them without frills.


- Be able to find comfort in the space, woven of heat, sound, light, color, air.


- Feel a part of the Universe, do not be afraid to develop and show itself.




Try it... And don't be afraid!






Source:

School of life
















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