5 taboo topics when talking with my husband

Of course, you are a model wife who loves her husband and always in all its supports. Try to feed him tasty, wash and iron his clothes, in General, to please him in everything. But, as it turned out, this is still not enough. It turns out, still need to watch what you say to her husband, what topics you discuss. And this fact plays a huge role in maintaining your relationship. Of course, many may disagree with this fact, saying that your husband people close to you that you can't be from him, no secrets, and that you can talk to him about anything. But still it is not so and this has been proven even by scientists and many years of experience your grandparents.

I in turn want to give you a few tips about what topics it is better not to start a conversation.

Theme gifts

Of course, that each of you has their own taste, some preferences about which your husband may not know. He wants to make you a pleasant and gives you all sorts of gifts, from any and expensive to simple trinkets, depending on the occasion. However, he is guided by their beliefs and conjectures. Receiving these gifts, you must understand that he wants to make you happy and waiting for your response. And if the gift you didn't like you in any case should not talk to him about it. This not only will you upset him, but you run the risk of never getting any gifts.

Theme comparison

Very often women, trying to explain something to her husband, begin to provide the example of the men of her friends and start to compare. That, they say, he bought her a car, and you can't I even dress new to buy, or are they family went to the sea to relax, and we can't even repair the apartment to do well or something in this spirit.

And what reaction do you expect from him? It will have a positive impact on him? If you really think so, so very wrong! On the contrary he will repay you with the same coin, praising the same your friends.

Also there are cases where wives are beginning to praise their ex-husbands, in the same way, making them an example. But they will not achieve anything, that their current husband will not change, even on the contrary, it will be very very upset and angry.

So you should draw the appropriate conclusions.

The theme of the mother-in-law

Well, about this, of course, need to know, not only women but also men.

Of course, there are such situations when, with hot, you can tell each other what you think about his law. But then, cooled down a bit, you realize that you have uttered nonsense and try to smooth out and settle this misunderstanding. And even if you manage to do that, deep down, each of you has a bad feeling from what he heard in the address of your mother.

Therefore, I advise you strongly to avoid talking on this subject, because your mother-in-law should always remain loved by you under any circumstances.

Topic

Whatever confidence may be your relationship with your husband, try not to tell him about those compliments that make you colleagues male. Because you are not always with them in the workplace, you also go on various birthdays and corporate parties, often without her husband. And in that moment, he may stop to trust you and may not even allow you to walk on them.

The weather

It would seem rather innocuous topic of conversation. On the one hand this is true, but on the other - this is not a topic that should be discussed with her husband. It is usually about the weather prefer to talk to a stranger or a little familiar with each other people. If you do start talking about the weather, then this will indicate that you no longer something to talk about with him that you have no any common interests. So this topic is forbidden for you.

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