Introduction to linguistics
Indifferent to cunnilingus ladies cruel nature related to sexual minority: only 6% of the total number of Mature women. If your girlfriend is in this elite club, you can relax and throw your language on the shoulder of her or himself. From oral sex to her, be neither hot nor cold.
But if it is, as Dr. Shpak from "Ivan Vasilievich" as if begging you: "Not zakryvaya mouth! "have to try. How? To begin with - not to make obvious mistakes. Here are five misconceptions that the woman should definitely dispel before engaging with a man in serious dialogue".
1. Let them remember, you are not a gymnast
. Some tricks with a girl can be done only if all women in the district want such as you, and her name is Alina, and behind Alina loud sports career. In this case, so to be able to put her feet over his shoulders. Or to go under it, without fear that at some point your caresses the girl in the truest sense of the word will settle you in the face. Or turn another trick.
But if the girl is not Alina, but, say, Masha, and it is known that the splits she sat down for the last time 10 years ago, any tumbles her contraindicated. In an uncomfortable position Masha will not be able to relax, and therefore, will not receive the lion's share than her (her, not you! ) fun. For the same reason it is not recommended to practice cunnilingus and seated her on a chair. It will distract your rhythmically moving head, she can be cold without blankets and ill at ease out the wrinkles on the belly, which pose spread on the sheet broiler chicken is not visible (in her opinion). Let her lie back and spread her knees as she needs. And a Blowjob, and lanet (another name of cunnilingus) can be compared with Masturbation, performed with assistance. And when you masturbate, you usually nobody sees, right? So she may not see you put the ass to the partner cushion, thereby lifting her hips. This will not only hide your face, but will save your neck and facial muscles overload.
2.
Time all treats. Two minutes is a joke. Such cunnilingus and cunnilingus not call, so, prior weasel, part of the prelude, the hack before the main work. But for women oral sex is as fulfilling as sex, Blowjob for men. Do not try to deceive her expectations. It is unlikely that you would have liked, if promising to caress your mouth, woman, "orderstable" least 30 seconds, then would suggest you to merge in the usual missionary position.
Make sure she had as much time as she needed (and it usually is not less than 5-7 minutes). If a woman is afraid that she will not have enough time to have an orgasm, she will not experience or will experience, but not as bright as you or she wanted. And we should not pretend that the process you like, if in fact you frankly sick. The woman is very important emotional partner. If she feels that you dislike, all - farewell, orgasm, farewell, good sex. Love the female body all whole - or do not handle it at all.
3.
"And snatched my sinful tongue..." As bequeathed Almodovar, talk to her. In our country there is a monstrous myth about love don't need to say, as lovers should understand each other without words. Nonsense!
If your partner goes around, grabs you hair, and inarticulate groans, stop, maybe it's the moans of pain, not pleasure. Maybe you just now decided to caress her tongue, and unshaven chin, and it attempts to provide you the signal, "Stop, honey, stop! ".
If women are cunnilingus with ill-concealed tenderness and even referred to him affectionately as the hand of the animal, "kuni" or "Coon", discussing on specialized forums subtleties and details of the process, in severe male community about this supposedly shameful form of foreplay try not to speak. If it does not exist. And no theory bad in practice.
Ask her what she likes and what she wanted. Just remember the instructions and don't be afraid to clarify, when you get down to execution. If you will not blush like a young schoolgirl at the first appointment of a female doctor, you and your partner freedom, and you will have the chance to hear from her many interesting things.
And Yes, for the first serious conversation take the trouble to find acceptable euphemisms for medical terms (cunnilingus sounds as sexy as the perturbation) and at the same time to refrain from Frank bawdry (maybe pussy she even own a cat does not name).
4.
Silence is Golden. In the process. Do not distract her with compliments from physical sensations. But to strengthen them will help you... singing (no need to perform "Farewell of Slav", you can just pretty humming or humming to himself). After all, sound is vibration, and vibration is very nice (otherwise why would she need that little thing out of the locker, which she from time to time withdraws? ).
To create the effect of vibrator you quite a force. Accompaniest own voice. The main thing is that she refrained from laughing. By the way, many women complain that enjoy cunnilingus they interfere with a disgusting thud sounds and lupane coming in the bedroom in silence. Turn up the music, if not resolved to accompany themselves.
5.
The main thing is magic "button". No one argues, stimulation of the clitoris language is a sure way to bring a woman to orgasm. But, first, some feel the direct touching of the clitoris as the shocks (that is rather unpleasant than pleasant), and secondly, in the world there is not only the clitoris. Tongue, lips, fingers worth caress everything - the vulva, vagina, inner thighs, ass, nipples, crotch, stomach - and what else is there she has erogenous zones. Yes, you will have to Dodge.
In General, the main thing here - all comply with the measure. Too hard is bad, too pale, too. Not to follow any rhythm disgusting, but constantly to change is to bring the partner to the half-unconscious state, but not to orgasm, and that is inhuman.
There is an opinion...
Although the sexual revolution in our country, unlike the rotten West, started not so long ago, the progress is clearly evident. Men are still shy to talk to each other about cunnilingus (and about sex in General, let's be honest), but have no problems to talk about his attitude to women - for example, peepers journalist.
Ivan, 22 years: "The Golden rule of humanism, developed by Kant, works great sex treat her the way I want it to treat you. Oral sex is equally enjoyable for both men and women. So if you want to get oral sex from her - obviously, as you have to treat cunnilingus. I am well".
Vladimir, 23: "Once upon a time I was a girl for a very long time were tuned to the desired wave and generally excited. By trial and error it was found that only 10-15 minutes of petting or cunnilingus solve the problem. Since then its had a lot in my life. I like them to start sexual intercourse and, so to speak, to prepare the soil. Each time, however, it is hard to do - tired muscles of the face and neck".
Sergey, 26 years
"I think that this is only possible through the love and in the presence of a strong and serious relationship. Don't get me wrong: in normal sex you both enjoy in its conventional version. And the mouth-the condom is not put on! However, many infections are perfectly transmitted this way. For Blowjob this usually works to a lesser extent first, orally stimulate you and the member, rolled up in latex, and secondly, it's psychologically easier to give a random partner your unit than... Yes, it's chauvinistic position of double standards! ".
Here's how to cunnilingus are themselves the objects of this sex discrimination. I must say, are very different.
Katerina, 22"Oh... Well I am very, very much! Better when it is a compulsory part of the program, but everything happens. And I usually do not reverse until the man first begins. Only in rare cases do differently. Strange principle, but as is".
Veronica, age 37: "Still have not met men who know how to do so or not was sick or not punched on hee-hee. Despite the fact that the reverse is very respected, and morceli like not complaining".
Olga, 30 Let: "Cunnilingus is great. Not before, not after, instead! My dear husband makes it incomparably. Probably no one but him, I didn't need. But cunnilingus is the cherry in the cocktail sex life. Nice, cool, certainly reach orgasm, but sex is still something else".
Eugene, 28
"We think this thing useful and cool, we like, and we are doing it. I think because the practice that we were lucky with the man. And was generally lucky with the teachers of the bed. And if a man didn't do that, but asks to play with it, see nothing to be ashamed to offer him the position 69 and happily make this life mutually. There were many precedents - no one refused".
Elena, 23 years
: "I don't like. Sad and very stupid. Probably the fact that able to do not experienced".
Take language
In order not to fall in the eyes of the women in the category of such sad sack, for starters it possible to perform the following simple recommendations.
1) Always start with foreplay. Cunnilingus is not a prelude to sex, it is a full view of sex, and as before any sex, girl first need to warm up. Not recidivates on her Clit, sticking his tongue out with a cry: "Zombie sees the goal! ". Slowly and gently kiss the inner thighs, lower abdomen, pubis and, finally, the bosom. To begin cunnilingus it gently, and here is how to proceed - prompt reaction partner. Some like it hot.
2) Vary the rhythm and amplitude of movements, adapting to the partner. Monotony kills the whole intrigue. Just don't try to capture his mouth all at once, pay attention to every part of her intimate zone separately. Write language eights and circles, and when it will be very close to the final, envelop lips clitoris entirely, caressing him more intensely than usual - the result will not keep itself waiting. Note: this should be done only in close proximity to orgasm, not before. Lubricate the whole effect.
3) using your hands. They say that while the man has a tongue and at least one finger - he is not impotent. And if you have ten of them!.. Oral sex is best combined with shallow penetration - one-two phalanges, no more, this will increase the sensations. The number of fingers is also strictly limited. One is fine, two - wherever you went, and three is already too much.
4) Moisturize the soil. Dripping saliva on the sheet not worth it, but on the ground you to orgasm clearly not gets. Only swim. In the extreme case, Wade. Your fingers should not be dry. This may cause the girl serious pain.
5) Give the lady the road. To win glory attentive lover is very simple - sometimes enough to bring his woman pleasure, without requiring anything in return from her. Believe me, she will appreciate it and will reward you in the same respectful attitude toward your person.
And those who say that "to climb under the beaver" is unworthy of a real man that is the kind of perversion that came in a "normal" sex from lesbian can continue to sit in his cave, Samtavisi in moth-eaten animal's skin and scratching at the nape of the neck of the femoral bone of a mammoth, thinking: where are all the women?
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