If a strong lady man scares her arrogance, arrogance and excessive protrusion of themselves, neglect of family interests for the sake of their own selfish pleasures, weak lady boys discourages dependence.
After all, what girl is weak? A dependent. Dependent emotionally, psychologically, sexually, physically and financially. And if sexually sensitive lady flattered to manhood and warms his ego, emotional, psychological and physical dependence guys annoying, and material and even causes a feeling of neglect. After all, what women appreciate men? Rare, those that do not often see. And a kept today is no surprise.
If Madame entirely financially dependent on their provider, forced for the sake of banal survival and sustenance, shelter him in every way to please and even to be humiliated, then how can you be proud of such a companion, how you can treat it as your equals?
What is most interesting, initially, the men themselves are doing everything possible to from a successful and independent wives to make home Clos, after the child's birth (or even before this event) they prohibit the favorite to go to work, ostensibly to she had paid more attention to home, family, and simply put, in order to transform from a professional in domestic and maintain any whim of her husband, and that he has less jealous of other men (physically), and to her career and financial achievements (professionally).
After this train of opportunities for women's realization very quickly goes away, the lady turns into a totally financially dependent on the benefactor's wife, and thus deprived of opportunities to independently control their own destiny.
At first, this situation is extremely flattered male vanity - still! He is such a successful and wonderful earner. But even if that is not so subordinated to him a wife and he her commands. And anyone that doesn't like, he's still not going anywhere, because it is totally dependent on his good deeds, whims and moods - wants to give money for food and fur, will not want - not the ladies: I'm the boss!
However, over time this situation bothers any man. Willingly or unwillingly, he compares his once beloved partner with other female colleagues, employees, business ladies, young girls, and makes conclusions about the looks, success and mind is clearly not in favor of the wife.
As for the SIM begins to change, using the excuse that he would not have changed if she 1) was followed, 2) was such an interesting and versatile personality, 3) not shaking over him like a hen on an egg...
Therefore, in order to remain attractive to her husband a woman even 50 years old, in spite of that and in spite of all his arguments are not to throw his career, not to betray a favorite cause, to continue to grow professionally and improve. Otherwise, then she will be my fault that he lost.
In addition to financial dependence would like to remark that men hate women, totally dependent on them emotionally, psychologically. Such ladies inside empty - they don't love yourself and try to fill this vacuum with the love of her husband or children. But it is a road to nowhere, the road to the next disappointment.
If the girl herself does not like, potential partners will be avoided initially.
But even if she is suddenly able to tie down any instance of a male, he sooner or later will realize that by itself it is not necessary, and is only a means to fill her own spiritual emptiness. And believe me, no one likes to feel like a tool, and not be a purpose and meaning. From these and run down the men on the second, third, fifth, tenth year of life.
What to do to stop being a weak woman emotionally? What you need to become psychologically independent? The recipe is simple and complicated at the same time - love yourself for who you are. Just love yourself. Thus you will fill the emptiness inside. Thus you will not alienate the wife and children of his persistence and type of care or hypersensivity, and to attract them and other people and positive events in your life.
If earlier for you husband and children were in the first place, now you have to be a strong woman and first put yourself in the first place, and then - husband and then children. Husband you can throw. The children soon anyway will emerge from the nest. But I myself always was, is and will be you and only you.
Start to feel sorry for yourself sometimes, and sometimes indulge, sometimes surprising, sometimes to praise, and then the same thing will be done for you and the people around them. Just do everything in moderation, without fanaticism. And you will succeed.
Now let's talk about the strength of weak women. Weak strong woman that she is not playing games with her beloved, and he sometimes, from time to time, we see how she is vulnerable, defenseless, and therefore feminine.
After all, man is not only the hunter, which is interesting to chase a strong and self-confident, financially and psychologically independent female, but it's still always in the soul of the father and patron, who want to look strong against the weak ladies.
Women's weakness, the vulnerability is the same zest that wise girls and cling intelligent guys. The main thing - do not overdo it with the raisins and use it metered.
Source:
Maniwoman
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